Sometimes we get the cause and effect backward. To fix the problem, all we have to do is recognize it and flip the cause and effect.
You’re unhealthy because you’re overweight. You’re overweight because you’re unhealthy.
You’re unhappy because your life sucks. Your life sucks because you are unhappy.
You’re an unbeliever because you can’t see it. You don’t see it because you’re an unbeliever.
You don’t feel successful because you haven’t made enough money. You haven’t made enough money because you don’t feel successful.
You’re afraid because the world is scary. The world is scary because you are afraid.
You are in control of how you frame the problem. Once you frame it correctly, you can work on the real cause.