This May Be Why You are NOT Getting Results
I suspect it happens to just about everybody. Certainly it has to me…many times: I’ve failed to generate the results that I desired.
In this post, I share with you a possible reason why you’ve never had the results you desire. Or maybe you’re no longer getting the results you did in the past. I also share with you the solution. Here’s a hint: Focus on what YOU can control.
Results-Oriented Discouragement
You hear every day that we are in a “results-oriented” society. You talk about being results-oriented at your workplace or your business. You’re told you have to be results-oriented in your life. You’re constantly being told that only your results matter. You are inundated with result, results, results.
Guess what? This is essentially true.
Your results are what tell you if you’re going in the right direction or not. Results are what tell you the size of the impact you are making.
Think about goal setting, whether personal or professional. Almost by definition goal setting is results-oriented. When you go through an exercise of goal setting, most times you are thinking about the results you desire.
But many times, if we are NOT getting the results we desire, we can get severely discouraged. When we get discouraged, it exacerbates the problem because our mindset starts to falter. I know, because I’ve been there. Whether it was a sales goal, a life goal, a content creation goal, or a fitness or health goal, I’ve NOT achieved many of the things I’ve set out to do.
So I’ve studied why that might be, and here’s what I’ve learned…
Focus on What YOU Can Control
Results Dependent Upon Others
Results Dependent Upon Personal Accountability
Income Producing Activities
Conclusion
If you find yourself discouraged because of a lack of hitting your goals, shift your focus to what YOU can control. Focus on what YOU can control, and YOU can control your daily level of activity, and that you are engaged in the right activities, i.e., the IPA’s. Here’s the magic…The Slight Edge and The Compound Effect teach us that when we focus on performing the correct daily activities over time, we ultimately achieve our goals. We get the results for which we are looking.
For the goals you have set, figure out what are the right activities and the level of activity that is required daily to meet those goals, and then start doing them!
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Great read John! Imagine if we took all of our wasted energy on things we can’t control and redirected that same energy on things we can control. The impact would be huge.
So True! Its certainly something that I have not gotten right in the past, but am now. When we focus on what we can control, its amazing how progress starts to happen.
Hey John, the mind is a wonderful thing. It is how you control you. Glad you recognize the power of the mind and body connection. We “can” relate. My mind and body are enjoying life. I’m fishing again. Life is GREAT!
Awesome 😀. It all starts with the mind…that has been the biggest thing I’ve learned, for sure