Should is fraught.
You should do this. You should think that. You should believe us. You should be this. It should be this way.
Should is somebody else’s idea for control. Should is someone or some collective trying to impose their will on you. Not your will. Theirs.
Your will — your perspective — is the most you thing you have. It’s OK for you to think “I should” or “we should.”
Raise the fed flags when you hear “you should.”
