Who doesn’t want to be free?
I sure do.
But also, with freedom comes chaos, responsibility, danger, rif-raf, people not like us, consequences, grit, faster, slower, sharks, and a natural meritocracy.
So we have introduced order. With order comes stability, safety, expectations, people like us, understanding, systems, soft pillows, groomed beauty, and a plan.
We rarely argue over whether we need freedom or order. Not really. Mostly, we argue where the line is.