Two-way door decisions are the kind where you can always change your mind, back up, and make the other decision. Ordering a burger is a two-way door decision.
One-way door decisions are the kind where you can’t go back once you make it. Jumping out of the airplane is a one-way door decision.
Two-way door decisions allow testing, trying new things, and changing one’s mind. One-way door decisions require commitment, careful consideration, and learning as much as possible before making it.
Often, we trick ourselves into thinking that two-way door decisions are actually one-way door decisions. That’s not surprising because restricting the number of variables is a hack we use to solve problems. If we tell ourselves, “OK, I have to commit,” and believe it, we’re more likely to make that outcome successful. Let’s not consider the other side.
But most decisions we make are two-way door decisions. There’s usually a path to back out, chang your mind, and do the other thing.
Sometimes you gotta bite the bullet and start again. That’s just being a human.
