When Carrying It Means Youāre Standing Still
Because strength is useless if it keeps you from moving forward.
Maybe the bravest thing isnāt to carry more.Ā MaybeĀ itās to set something down so you can take a step.
When Itās Not Even Yours
Because you might be shouldering someone elseās expectations, guilt, or fear.
We all do it. Parents, children, friends, colleagues.Ā We take on burdens that donāt belong to usĀ orĀ we thinkĀ helpsĀ another.Ā The weight isnāt just heavy. Itās misplaced.
When It Costs You Everything With Nothing in Return
Because leadership isnāt martyrdom.
IfĀ the burden youāre bearingĀ is helping no one but breaking you, it might be time to re-evaluate.Ā Help and sacrifice arenāt the same thing.
When Itās Blocking the Light
Because the load on your back canĀ alsoĀ cast the shadow youāre stuck in.
Sometimes, the heaviness isnāt a badge of honor. Itās the thing keeping you from seeing clearly.
When You Canāt Ask for Help
Because isolation compounds pressure.
The weight becomes too muchĀ the momentĀ you believe youāre not allowed to share it.