The Tension Between Experience and Confidence

We scoff at those who display what we consider to be unearned confidence. We call them arrogant and cocky, and smart people start labeling with smart labels such as Dunning-Krueger. Basically, how dare they? They didn’t earn the credentials. They didn’t...

The Tension Between Freedom and Order

Who doesn’t want to be free? I sure do. But also, with freedom comes chaos, responsibility, danger, rif-raf, people not like us, consequences, grit, faster, slower, sharks, and a natural meritocracy. So we have introduced order. With order comes stability,...

Outside the Box

The box exists for a reason. Actually several. The box keeps the rain out and the heat in. It also keeps the rif-raf out and the people like us in. The box serves as a guide. Here’s a good direction and a great place to play. But also, stay here, don’t go...

The Familiar Path

I do it too. I think we all do, but some are much better at overcoming it than others. I don’t know if it’s human nature — programmed into us at some basic level. Or if it’s learned — taught by the culture and tribes to which we belong....

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