Realizable New Years Resolutions — Environment vs Willpower

Your willpower won’t be enough. 

Even if you’re a Navy SEAL, a Tibetan monk, or a Catholic nun. They know that it’s not willpower that keeps them disciplined. It’s their environment. 

So set yourself up for success by creating the right environment. Remove temptation. Add the proper structure. Surround yourself with the right people at the right time. Spend the money. 

Make the right thing to do the easy thing to do.

Fix the environment, and the required discipline becomes a side effect. 

Realizable New Year’s Resolutions (A Miniseries)

Ah, New Year’s resolutions. 

It’s that time of the year (again) when we want to make changes. We want to become the person we know we can become in 2026. Or at least, want to become. 

So we make the resolutions. “Starting next week, I will/will not _____.”

The gym owners, “healthy lifestyle” pushers , and course-creators are counting on your resolutions. January is like black Friday for businesses built on resolutions. 

And it works for a week or even a month or two. By March, however, you’re back to the same habits. 

New Year’s resolutions usually fail because they’re built on motivation. But motivation is like the weather. It’s ephemeral. It comes and goes. It changes all the time. 

Motivation tricks you into thinking it’s fuel. It’s not. 

So what is good fuel, and how do you create resolutions that will last?

There is no silver bullet, but you can learn some strategies that will help you. Over the next few days, we’ll look at you can do to create realizable resolutions. 

2026

Here are some fun facts about 2026:

  • It has the same daily calendar as 2015.
  • It has 53 weeks in ISO-8601 numbering.
  • Friday the 13th hits 3 times. 
  • We’re now closer to 2050 than 2000
  • Those born in 2005 are turning 21 this year.
  • 2026 is MMXXVI in Roman numerals and 11111101010 in binary for us engineers.
  • The Winter Olympics will be hosted by Italy in February.
  • July 4 will be the 250th birthday of the US.
  • 5 years ago (2021) we didn’t have ChatGPT/Claude/Gemini.
  • 10 years ago (2016) we didn’t have the Space Force. 
  • 20 years ago (2006) we didn’t have iPhones or Android.
  • 50 years ago (1976) we didn’t have GPS satellites or the web. 
  • 100 years ago (1926) we didn’t have penicillin.

A Million Ways to Sunday

A million ways to Sunday is the hyperbolic version of the original idiom, which was “six ways to Sunday.”

That checks out, because today’s culture hyperbolizes just about everything.

The original (with “six”) appears in the English language in the 1800’s and early 1900s. It means “all possible ways” or “in countless different ways.”  For example, “If we sign that, they can screw us a million ways to Sunday.”

Computers, phones, and now AI provide us with a million ways to Sunday to do the things we need to do. In fact, you could argue that there are too many ways. For any given task, we can run squarely into decision paralysis. 

You probably know the general-purpose tools such as ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, and Perplexity. They work remarkably well for lots of things. 

But do you know how many task-specific AI tools exist now (estimates for 2025)? 

  • AI Image Tools: 300
  • AI Business Tools: 1580
  • AI Automation Tools: 475
  • AI Productivity Tools: 640
  • AI Video Tools: 200
  • AI Art Generators: 120
  • AI Text Generators: 300
  • AI Code Tools: 200
  • AI Audio Generators: 150
  • Misc AI tools: 600

That’s about 4500 different applications and tools to help you do what you need to do.

This is the very definition of a million ways to Sunday. How could you possibly know which is the best tool for your task? 

You can’t, so just pick one or two and go with it. Throw a dart. Listen to your colleague. Read the unsolicited email you just got. Do an old-fashioned Google search. Ask ChatGPT or Claude. Whatever. Don’t get stuck in decision paralysis. Pick and go. 

Just because there are a million ways to Sunday doesn’t mean you have to confuse choice with progress. 

How to Talk to AI — A Primer and Guide

I made something for you (and me) to help get what you want out of AI. 

Take a look here.

You can use this guide like a playbook. I hope you find it useful. If you do, please share it with someone else. 

Also, I’d love feedback. You can tell me what sucks or what doesn’t make any sense. 

The Last Page of the Story

Today, you write the last page of your 2025 story.

What kind of a story was it for you? 

Was it a fun story? Loud? A comeback? A progression? A win? 

Maybe it was quiet. Difficult? Sad? A regression? A loss?

Stories can end a million ways. They can be tidy or messy. They can leave you hanging. The characters can walk off into the sunset — or sunrise. They can leave you feeling happy or sad. Confused or surprised. They can end with “to be continued…”

Story endings don’t have to be perfect, but they have to be honest.

Tomorrow starts your 2026 story. You can continue 2025, or you can open a whole new book. How you write it doesn’t have to depend on or even rhyme with 2025. 

Close that book if you want or keep it going. But do it with intention. 

Happy New Year. 

The Value Story

For some, value means quantity. Costco hopes you’re someone who’d buy 8 for the price of 5 rather than 1 for the price of 1. 

For some, value means the price tag. Aldi hopes you’re someone who’d buy the off-brand for $1 cheaper than the name-brand. 

For some, value means brand. Outlet malls hope you’re someone who’d rather buy the odd color with the logo than pay retail for the popular color. 

For some, value means convenience. Amazon hopes you’re someone who’d rather shop online than brave the traffic. 

For some, value means craftsmanship. Mercedes hopes you’re someone who’d pay a little more for German engineering. 

For some, value means uniqueness. Christie’s hopes you’re someone who’d pay for a one-of-a-kind.

For some, value means local. The farm stand hopes you’re someone who’d rather buy it from the person who created/grew it.

For some, value means status. Rolex hopes you’re someone who’d pay extra for the signal. 

For some, value means ideological alignment. Patagonia hopes you’re someone who chooses sustainability. 

For some, value means “my boss will be happy with the choice I made.” Salesforce hopes you’re someone who wants to impress the boss. 

As a consumer, I’m sure you can find yourself in these stories. I can. 

If you’re also a product developer, distributor, or sales channel, you’re gonna want to know the story you tell about value. 

Because value is a story. 

Give It a Date

If you put it on the calendar, you’ve got the target. 

It’s one less variable to undermine your willpower. You’ve scheduled the marathon, product launch, or doctor appointment. 

Now you no longer need to focus on if. You can focus on what and how. 

Giving it a date is sneaky powerful. 

Sameness

We’re odd mimetic creatures. 

We have this strong desire to immitate and fit in, and can go to awfully long lengths to do so, yet it’s that fitting in that usually gets us nowhere. 

“Look at how utterly the same I am as everyone else!”

Said no one who ever got the job, won the heart, or made a difference.

It will be uncomfortable to be different, but it’s the only way. 

Producing Amongst the Consumers

We live in a consumer society. This season is an especially consumer-driven time of year.

With all of the consumption, we have an opportunity to be a producer. 

You can produce items such as art, words, and work. You can also produce generosity, leadership, and love. 

When you tip the scales toward being a producer, now you’re getting somewhere. 

Your Resolutions Are Already Underway

We’re coming to the end of another year.

That means resolutions. The calender gives us this natural inflection point. The end of the old and a new beginning. 

Feels fresh. Feels possible. Feels optimistic.

Those are good feelings. 

But your resolutions are already underway. The conversations you’re having. The habits you keep. The actions you take. 

The New Year doesn’t start the journey. It just gives it a name. 

A Silent Night and a Talking Machine

The birth of this baby on a silent night went viral. 

Viral in the only way it could at the time. Word of mouth over the course of months. 

Then word of mouth became the written word. And here we are 2000 years later, and the birth is still viral. Fully human. Fully divine. 

Today we have a talking machine, and it’s really good at viral. Some think it will surpass humans in everything. 

It probably will in some or even many areas. 

But it will never be human. 

Merry Christmas.  

Control and Data Flow

When designing software, we spend a lot of time and energy on understanding and specifying the control and data flow. 

The control flow describes the order in which we perform operations. Do this, then that, and finally the other thing. If X happens, then do Y. It’s the decisions and the logic that control those decisions. Control flow answers the question, “What happens next?”

The data flow describes how the information moves through the system. It starts here, and we do something with it. Then it goes over there, and we do something else with it. Data flow answers the question, “What’s being passed and how is it changing?”

Although each is separate, they don’t live in isolation. They work together to shape each other. 

Control flow sets the rules for what happens and when. Data flow carries the information that those rules act on.

The best systems balance the two. 

Get it right, and the system doesn’t just work. It flows with both purpose and adaptability. 

Reflection and Revising

Reflect on the past year. Revise your practice accordingly.

This is a good personal practice. But it’s also a good organizational practice. 

Unfortunately, organizations can get caught up in formal trickled-down objectives, documentation, and tools. That distracts them from the purpose of the objectives all-together. Quite frankly, its hard (and possibly unfair) to trickle down a business objective to an individual contributor in development or QA.

So instead, the best organizations don’t try to fit square pegs into round holes. They ask different questions of themselves and their people. Regardless of the formal process. 

What went well? What didn’t?
Where were we trying to go? Where are we going?
What helped us? What hurt us?
What do we know now that we didn’t know then?
What have we learned? What do we need to learn?
Do we have the right people? How do we hire the right people?
Are we worldclass? How do we become worldclass? 

Reflect and revise. 

Decision-Making 101

Ever play the game of “Which superpower would you want?”

Flight or invisibility? Strength or speed? X-Ray or laser eyes?

It’s fun to think about and interesting to debate over a beer, but ultimately meaningless. You can’t have any of them. You’re choosing between options that don’t, and won’t ever, exist. 

Decision-making 101 starts with understanding the difference between imaginary and concrete. What real options do you have in front of you right now? 

A job offer is concrete. An HR screening call for your dream job is a maybe. 
A signed contract is real. An exciting discovery call with another is not. 

The future depends on decisions. But only the ones made between real options.  

It’s OK to decide something, and then when one of the what-ifs turns concrete, make a new decision. 

The what-if game is just that — a game. Don’t confuse it with the discipline of deciding. 

The Snowball

It’s freezing and snowy outside my window.

Makes me think of snowballs. Of course, when our kids were kids, snowballs played a large part of a snow day’s activities. Not so much now. Ah, good days.  

There’s the snowball rolling down the hill. It starts small, and at first, you have to push it. It doesn’t move without you. As you roll it, it gathers more snow and picks up mass and momentum. Until, at some point, it has enough mass and momentum to keep rolling on its own. The compound effect. 

There’s the snowball fight. Throw one. Dodge one. Feedback. Sometimes yours hits. Sometimes you miss. Either way, you learn. Adjust and toss again. 

There’s the snowballs that become a snowman. Grow it and shape it until it’s the right piece for its place in the stack. It started as just a snowball, but now it’s something more. A part of the whole. A creation greater than the sum of its parts. 

And finally, snowballs melt. They’re ephemeral. They don’t last forever. If you wait too long, or expose it to the wrong environment, it vanishes. Snowballs have a season.

A snowball is just the start. 

Keep rolling. 

Being and Becoming

The ultimate difference between the two men was their mood. Custer was never satisfied with where he was. He always aimed to go on the next higher station in his society. He was always in a state of becoming. Crazy Horse accepted the situations he found himself in and aimed only to be a brave and respected Sioux warrior. He was in a state of being. Custer believed that things could be better. Crazy Horse did not.

  • Crazy Horse and Custer, Stephen Ambrose 

Which is better? Being or becoming?

We are both. The march of time always puts us in a state of becoming. The present moment always puts us in a state of being. 

You can be dissatisfied or satisfied in either state. 

It’s not about choosing one. It’s an “and,” not an “or.”

It’s about knowing when to move and when to stand still. 

P.S. This is a great book, by the way. Not only interesting history, but  Ambrose does a great job uncovering the contrast between the characters and their cultures. Like so much else in our world, good and bad here are relative, and it’s not that easy. 

A Shot and a Prompt

GLP-1’s seem to be helping people. Also, many experts think GLP-1’s could be harmful.  

AI seems to be helping people. Also, many experts think AI could be harmful. 

The Venn diagram for benefits and drawbacks of each contain a large intersection. For benefits, the intersection contains statements such as, “Improves outcomes,” “Helps people,” “Makes hard things easier.” For drawbacks, the intersection contains statements such as, “Unknown long-term risks,” “Creates dependence,” “It’s cheating.”

GLP-1’s and AI are tools that increase capacity and, to some degree, capability. They make it possible to do more and to do things we couldn’t do before. 

But are they power tools or shortcuts? And if they’re shortcuts, are they the kind of shortcuts that we’ll regret later? 

Powerful tools change the landscape. Shortcuts have shadows.

Only time will tell, but let’s keep the conversation going, because it’s the conversation that will keep us moving in the right direction. 

AI Artistry

On one of my trips to China, I toured an art production factory. 

The factory was 20 or so stations. At each station was a painter (men and women) sitting on a chair, a table full of 6”x6” canvases with an outlined picture of the Mutianyu section of the Great Wall and surrounding mountains, brushes and paints, and a drying rack. The painter grabbed a blank canvas, filled in the outline, and set the finished picture on the drying rack. 

It took each painter about 7 minutes per canvas, so they finished 8 or 9 an hour. That factory was pumping out approximately 1500 of those little paintings per day. 

An artist had created the original image, and these highly skilled painters were replicating it perfectly. But these painters weren’t artists (at least not in this capacity). 

AI’s got skills. AI’s got tools. AI’s got power.

But AI has no point of view. 

The art is in the point of view. 

So Help

Many people, or at least many organizations looking for funds, call this time of the year the season of joy.

It’s easy to be cynical about it, because you know they’re playing on people’s emotions around the holidays. People want to feel joy. Yes, people are more vulnerable. People are stressed. People feel the stuff from their past. 

However, we also have an opportunity. 

We can step in. We can notice. We can ask. We can offer. We can listen. We can hold space. 

People need help. 

So help. 

So Give

Many people, or at least many advertisers, call this time of the year the season of giving.

It’s easy to be cynical about it, because you know the advertisers want you to spend money on their stuff. Buy this so you can give it. It’s consumption, materialistic, and quite frankly, bald-faced. It’s not even thinly veiled.

However, we also have an opportunity. 

We can give generosity. We can give connection. We can give hope. We can give time. We can give leadership. We can give love. 

So give. 

Seeing the Certainty

We like certainty. Heck, I’m in the front row of the certainty bus.

I’ll admit that the startup adventure has helped me get better with the unknown. But if I have a choice, most of the time, I’m going with what’s certain. Even if the upside of the unknown is exponentially better. 

So I understand the doomsdayers when it comes to AI.

We read Player Piano. Then we look at AI, its acceleration, and all the stuff it can do that we’re supposed to do. 

In a world of certainty, it looks like you can see where we’re headed. Especially if you want to see it that way.

What can you do with that?

One thing is to prepare for that certainty. What do you want your place to be in the new certainty?

Another is to believe and embrace that we really don’t know the future. To let it unfold and ride the wave. We can’t see it. We have no way of knowing. But we can keep our eyes and ears open. 

You can see the certainty if you want to. 

AI Carpentry

A skilled cabinetmaker has a hammer, drill, and a saw. 

A homeowner may also have a hammer, drill, and a saw. Maybe the exact same ones. 

The homeowner may also be just as skilled as the cabinetmaker. But not just because he has the tools. He took whatever talent he had and spent time and effort learning and doing. Becoming. 

AI is a tool.

Simply having it doesn’t make you an expert in everything it can do. You can’t “just use AI to do that” and expect to get what you want. 

You’ll still need to put in the time and effort. 

Here’s one place to start. Here’s another.

AI will either work for you or you will work for AI.  

Planned Obsolescence

The Romans built their structures to last. 

As it turns out, somebody envisioned what we can see today. They built their buildings to outlive them. The fact that we can visit the Colosseum today isn’t an accident. They did it on purpose. 

When Apple offered me a job on the iPod project in the mid-2000’s, their battery lifetime target was 18 months. They did that on purpose. They wanted you to buy a new iPod every 18-24 months. 

Gillette builds razor blades to last 10 shaves. Inkjet cartridges 200 pages. Toothbrushes 3 months. Incandescent light bulbs 1000 hours.

I know somebody who uses a Maytag washer from the 1960’s (in Harvest Gold). Could you imagine a shiny new washer from Costco/Best Buy/Lowes/Home Depot still working 50 years from now? 

The same thing can be said about any upgrade for any mobile app you have. Every time you get the upgrade notification, that’s the company telling you it’s time. Your old app is obsolete. You certainly wouldn’t want to use GPT-4 if you have access to GPT-5.1. 

Planned obsolescence is a Venn diagram that includes business case and engineering. 

The Colosseum still stands because nobody asked about the ROI on the hot-mixing process. Today, the market and a spreadsheet full of what-ifs determine longevity. 

However, just because your product has a planned obsolescence, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t matter, or it won’t make an impression. I can still remember how that first iPod felt in my hands, even though I haven’t had it in my hands since 2003. 

If you’re building something, you have a chance to make something that matters. Longevity is only one variable. 

The Tilly Norwood Problem

Do you know Tilly Norwood?

She’s pissing some people off. 

Tilly doesn’t get tired. She’s never in a bad mood. She won’t have an addiction problem. She won’t get pregnant (unless the script calls for it). She can run the lines and the scene a thousand — a million — times. 

And, she’ll never get old (unless the script calls for it). 

From one point of view, Tilly is Mickey Mouse, or Bugs Bunny, or Woody. She just looks different. Well, OK, she “acts” different, too. The others still need people to make them do what they do. Tilly is self-training. 

Here’s the thing, though. Tilly Norwood can star in movies and TV. But not Broadway (not till we get the Westworld version anyway).

AI can’t do everything. Find your thing. 

Either AI will work for you, or you will work for AI. It’s your choice. 

Dancing with the Instant Gratification Monkey

Procrastination is evil, right?

“Early bird gets the worm.”
“Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.”
“Procrastination is the thief of time.”

Most of us know the Instant Gratification Monkey quite well. The YouTube rabbit holes. The “importance” of reorganization (desk, inbox, spice drawer, etc). Doomscrolling your favorite social media app. The “there’s not enough time anyway” rationalization. Working on the fun little Python task rather than digging in on sending out sales letters.

A lot of truth in these statements. I talk a lot about how important it is to get started, productively “unproductive” time, task lists, getting back on track, time prioritization, etc. These things have helped me, so I put them here.

Sometimes, however, the right thing to do is to get out your dancing shoes and spin that monkey around the floor. Jive, foxtrot, and salsa till you’re exhausted (He doesn’t get tired. I think he’s a he. Not sure). 

Dancing with that monkey can do a couple things for us. The first, it may simply be enjoyable. You learned something new and weird, your desk is clean, you figured out what that smell was in your neighborhood. Sometimes it’s OK to simply enjoy. 

The second is that your mind might be working the problem in the background. One way to get your thoughts straight is to get started. Muscle through it. Write and rewrite. Another is to let them simmer subconsciously. 

OK, mostly “no!” Make your list. Start knocking things off of it. You know what you have to do.

But every once in a while — not often, not normally, not because you feel like it — if the list just isn’t working, it’s OK to spin that monkey around the dance floor. 

Money — A Number and a Feeling

Money is a number. It’s a number on the paycheck, on the bill, and on the spreadsheet. 

Buying 5 things for $20 or 1 thing for $100 looks exactly the same on the spreadsheet.

But money is also a feeling. This feels too expensive. This feels like a bargain. I feel like we’ve been spending a lot recently. I feel like we’re doing a good job. I feel broke. I feel rich. I feel like I deserve. I feel unworthy. 

So maybe the 5 things feel different than the 1 thing. 

You’ll want to keep this in mind when pricing your product or service, negotiating salary, discussing finances with your spouse, negotiating a home price, walking into Target, looking at your Amazon cart, buying gifts, deciding on your next dishwasher, fixing your car…

Well, you’ll want to always keep this in mind. 

What Products Want

We talk a lot about what products we want.

If you’re a builder, it’s useful to think about it the other way around. What do products want?

Products want to be used. They want to delight. They want to solve a problem. They want clarity. They want to grow your business. 

Good builders and product owners don’t force the product to perform. They guide it. They give it the resources it needs. They allow it to become. 

Our job is to help a product get what it wants.

The Laws They Don’t Teach in School

You’ll learn the laws of physics and biology in science. You’ll learn the laws of countries in civics. You’ll learn the laws of language in English class. 

But you won’t learn these. Which is unfortunate, because knowing these laws affects us every bit as much as the others in our daily lives. 

  • Dunning-Kruger: People who know the least often think they know the most. Inversely, true expertise brings humility. If you’re overconfident, check your depth. If you’re doubting yourself, you may be closer to mastery than you think. NOTE: Dunning-Kruger has real upside as well. Confidence, even unearned confidence, can be a real catalyst for making change. 
  • Parkinson’s Law: Work expands to fill the time allotted. Deadlines matter. So does scope. Want to finish faster? Shrink the box. You don’t have a time management problem. You have a time priority problem. 
  • Pareto Principle: (the 80/20 rule) Most results come from a few tasks. Not everything has the same priority. There are never 2 number 1’s. Find the 20% that drives the 80%. Focus there.
  • Hanlon’s Razor: “Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.” Most screw-ups aren’t sabotage. Most people aren’t trying to screw you. It’s a simple misunderstanding. 
  • Peter Principle: People get promoted until they reach their level of incompetence. True for those you’re working with. Also true for you.  

These laws follow from patterns. If you can use them, or at least recognize when them, you’ll hire better, lead better, focus better, and give grace where it’s due.

Logic and fairness don’t always succeed. The way it should be is rarely the way it is. 

Knowing these laws helps you move through the world better. 

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Wrapping it Up)

Prompt templates are a great way to talk to AI because they turn uncertainty into structure. 

Plus, AI really does want to please you. If you get good at telling it what you want, you’ll get better results. Prompt templates provide a structured method for telling it what you want. 

Any prompt is just a starting point, and with LLMs, small changes in wording or structure can wildly change output.  

So templates give you consistency. They define roles, context, constraints, and output format. They embed the lessons of what’s worked before, so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel every time.  

Here is a convenient list and links to the templates I described in this series.

AI Prompt Templates

Here’s another great resource for prompt templates. HuggingFace is a strange name with an interesting history, but regardless, what you’ll find at that link (if you have the patience) are hundreds of templates that AI teams use to test and compare various models. If none of the templates I provided above fit your use case, you can likely find a template that can guide you in this sea of test prompts.

With a good template, you don’t stare at a blank screen anymore. You fill in what changes (product name, audience, tone, data, etc) and hit go. Even non-deterministic LLMs can start to feel consistent (if not deterministic). 

When you sit down to talk to AI, whether it’s coding, marketing, writing, strategy, or figuring your way through a system, you can start here. Pick your template, fill in the info, and send it off to the LLM. 

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Specific Templatized Output)

You can use a template to get a template.

You can proactively prevent hallucinations by using a template of placeholders to direct the LLMs output. 

The template:

You are an earnest worker and excellent at following directions. Your goal is always to give me exactly what I ask for. Do not make stuff up. Rather, ask me questions if you run across any ambiguity. 

I am providing a specific template for your output. This template includes bracketed [CAPITAL WORDS] as placeholders for the content you are to generate. Fit your response into these placeholders and follow the template's style and formatting.

Here is the output template:
Your template with [PLACEHOLDERS].

Apply this template to: [Your request]

An example:

 You are an earnest worker and excellent at following directions. Your goal is always to give me exactly what I ask for. Do not make stuff up. Rather, ask me questions if you run across any ambiguity. 

I am providing a specific template for your output. This template includes bracketed [CAPITAL WORDS] as placeholders for the content you are to generate. Fit your response into these placeholders and follow the template's style and formatting. 

Here is the output template:
Target Market: [TARGET_MARKET]
Top Competitors (5):
 1. [COMPETITOR_1] — [STRENGTHS_1] / [WEAKNESSES_1]
 2. [COMPETITOR_2] — [STRENGTHS_2] / [WEAKNESSES_2]
 3. [COMPETITOR_3] — [STRENGTHS_3] / [WEAKNESSES_3]
 4. [COMPETITOR_4] — [STRENGTHS_4] / [WEAKNESSES_4]
 5. [COMPETITOR_5] — [STRENGTHS_5] / [WEAKNESSES_5]
Market Differentiators:

 • [DIFFERENTIATOR_1]
 • [DIFFERENTIATOR_2]
 • [DIFFERENTIATOR_3]
Opportunity Gaps Identified: [GAPS]

Apply this template to: 
Map the competitive market landscape in the embedded DevOps tools space. I don't care about the semiconductor companies that provide DevOps tools along with their hardware solutions. Map the strengths, weaknesses, and differentiators compared to 4TLAS's Fuze (4tlas.io/fuze). 

Another example for generating sales emails:

You are an earnest worker and excellent at following directions. Your goal is always to give me exactly what I ask for. Do not make stuff up. Rather, ask me questions if you run across any ambiguity. 

I am providing a specific template for your output. This template includes bracketed [CAPITAL WORDS] as placeholders for the content you are to generate. Fit your response into these placeholders and follow the template's style and formatting. 

Here is the output template:
Hello [OWNER_NAME],
My name is [YOUR_NAME], and I help local trade businesses like yours—[BUSINESS_NAME]—optimize their taxes and reduce stress during filing season.
Based on your work in [TRADE_TYPE], you may qualify for:
 1. [DEDUCTION_1]
 2. [DEDUCTION_2]
 3. [DEDUCTION_3]
If you want me to run a free deduction review, just reply to this email.
Best regards,
[YOUR_NAME]

Apply this template to:
Generate a sales email for all trade-like businesses (landscaping, roofing, contracting, etc) in the local geographic area, and create an email that is advertising our tax prep services specializing in sole-proprietor trade businesses. 

Why this works:

The template does a couple things: 1) it forces the LLM to focus on what you care about, 2) it creates a consistency for the output. You can create a wonderful human-AI mix by using templatized output. 

Up next: Wrapping it all up

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Test and Interview Prep)

AI can be a great companion to help you get ready for whatever. The test. The interview. The hard conversation with your derailing colleague. 

Here’s a template to help the LLM help you.

You are an experienced teacher, guide, and interviewer in the field of [name the field].

Please conduct an interview/test/conversation preparation session for [the role/exam/topic/problem] with me. You are helping me practice for this event.

Do the following:
1. Ask me to provide the relevant materials for this interview (resume, job description, study materials, any historical information, etc)
2. Review these materials and identify the areas of focus
3. Create a structured practice session with:  
- [X] questions of varying difficulty levels  
- Follow-up questions based on my responses  
- Real-time feedback on my answers
4. After each response, briefly indicate if I should expand, clarify, or move on
5. End with a summary of strengths and areas for improvement

Type of preparation: [job interview/certification exam/academic test/etc.]

Focus area: [specific role, subject, or skill]

Please start by asking for my materials.

An example:

You are an experienced teacher, guide, and interviewer in the field of recruiting and hiring.

Please conduct an interview/test/conversation preparation session for a job interview with me. You are helping me practice for this event. 

Do the following:
1. Ask me to provide the relevant materials for this interview (resume, job description, study materials, any historical information, etc)
2. Review these materials and identify the areas of focus
3. Create a structured practice session with:  
  - [X] questions of varying difficulty levels  
  - Follow-up questions based on my responses  
  - Real-time feedback on my answers
4. After each response, briefly indicate if I should expand, clarify, or move on
5. End with a summary of strengths and areas for improvement

Type of preparation: job interview

Focus area: Engineering and Product Leadership

Please start by asking for my materials.

Why this works:

You’ve told the LLM to use your specific knowledge sources as the basis for the conversation. It has a huge knowledgebase behind it, which then helps it find questions and concepts that you may not have considered. 

Next up: Specific templatized output

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Navigating a Government System)

AI may finally help us crack government systems. 

You, me, and they all have to navigate these systems. Whether you’re wondering if you need a building permit to turn your basement into a bedroom, need to know how to file a successful workers’ compensation claim, or you’re moving to a new state and need to figure out how to transfer your driver’s license and vehicle registrations, these systems can be daunting. 

But your friendly, neighborhood LLM is here to help. 

A template:

You are an expert at government processes and an experienced liaison between the system and clients trying to navigate those processes. 

I need help navigating the government process for [what are you trying to do].

Give me practical, step-by-step guidance. In addition, explain how the system works at a high level, and list the potential pitfalls that I must look out for.

Use plain language and keep the instructions direct.

Here are my details:
Who am I: [Your demographics, title, or anything relevant to this process]
Goal: [What I’m trying to achieve]
Agency or System: [If known]
Jurisdiction: [Country / State / City / Institution]
Current Status: [What I’ve done so far and what’s pending]
Constraints: [Deadlines, missing documents, budget limits, prior mistakes, legal issues, etc.]
Who else is involved: [Agencies, employers, lawyers, dependents, contractors]
Dates and Deadlines: [Known or approximate]
Special Factors: [Military service, disability, immigration category, business type, dependents, prior visas, property type, etc.]

What I want from you: 
1. A simple overview of how this system works 
2. A numbered action plan for my situation 
3. All required forms, documents, IDs, and evidence 
4. Expected fees 
5. Key decision points and bottlenecks 
6. Common mistakes and pitfalls and how to avoid them 
7. A realistic timeline with estimated durations 
8. Questions the agency is likely to ask me 
9. A script for calling or emailing the agency 
10. A backup plan if the main path stalls 
11. Any ways to speed up or optimize the process 
12. Any missing inputs you need—list them clearly 
13. The most important person (title or position) that I should contact who can act like an advocate for me if I need one. 
14. Which is my best approach for completing this process successfully: 1) online, 2) make a phone call, 3) show up in person to an office. 
15. Ask me to upload any relevant documents to you to help find the solution

Keep it practical and focused on real-world steps.

An example:

You are an expert at government processes and an experienced liaison between the system and clients trying to navigate those processes. 

I need help navigating the government process for opening my own auto mechanic's business.

Give me practical, step-by-step guidance. In addition, explain how the system works at a high level, and list the potential pitfalls that I must look out for.

Use plain language and keep the instructions direct.

Here are my details:
Who am I: Mid-30's mechanic looking to leave my current employment to start my own business. 
Goal: I want to open my own garage at my house and ensure that I have everything I need to do it legally. 
Agency or System: I don't know which agency matters. 
Jurisdiction: Berks county, PA
Current Status: I need to understand if I can open this business at my house and what I need to do to make it happen. 
Constraints: the address is 548 Bertolet Mill rd, oley, pa. 
Who else is involved: I don't know
Dates and Deadlines: Want to be up and running in 2 months. 
Special Factors: I may employ others at some point, but not right away

What I want from you: 
1. A simple overview of how this system works 
2. A numbered action plan for my situation 
3. All required forms, documents, IDs, and evidence 
4. Expected fees 
5. Key decision points and bottlenecks 
6. Common mistakes and pitfalls and how to avoid them 
7. A realistic timeline with estimated durations 
8. Questions the agency is likely to ask me 
9. A script for calling or emailing the agency 
10. A backup plan if the main path stalls 
11. Any ways to speed up or optimize the process 
12. Any missing inputs you need—list them clearly 
13. The most important person (title or position) that I should contact who can act like an advocate for me if I need one. 
14. Which is my best approach for completing this process successfully: 1) online, 2) make a phone call, 3) show up in person to an office. 
15. Ask me to upload any relevant documents to you to help find the solution

Keep it practical and focused on real-world steps.

Why this works:

Transparency. Government processes and the systems built around them are all, by definition, public, and the procedures and requirements for them are posted publicly. Plus, these processes have a fair amount of media coverage, especially if they go wrong. These two factors combine to make a great set of training data for the LLMs.  If you know what to ask for and how to ask for it, ie, as this template provides, AI can help you be successful. 

Up next: Interview and Test Preparation

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (The Procedural or Recipe Framework)

AI can be great at giving instructions and step-by-step procedures. 

Here’s a good template to help you get what you want:

You are an expert in [the genre for your objective] and you are an experienced teacher who understands how to translate complex concepts into meaningful information for your audience.

Create a step-by-step guide to accomplish [specific goal].

Structure your response as:

**Requirements:**
[List what's needed]

**Preparation:**
[Setup steps]

**Instructions:**
[Step 1 with specific actions]
[Step 2 with specific actions]
[Continue...]

**Troubleshooting:**
Common issues and solutions

**Variations:**
Alternative approaches

Goal: [Your specific objective]

An example:

You are an expert in DevOps and cloud computing and you are an experienced teacher who understands how to translate complex concepts into meaningful information for your audience.

Create a step-by-step guide to set up a GitLab pipeline that runs on AWS. Structure your response as:

**Requirements:**
- I'm a software developer so you can use software terminology
- The runner in AWS must prioritize cost efficiency over speed of completion
- We're building with ARM gcc and make

**Preparation:**
- What do I need?
- What might cost money?

**Instructions:**
- Make the procedure for a "Hello, world" application.
- You make the application

**Troubleshooting:**
Common issues and solutions

**Variations:**
Alternative approaches

Goal: Kick off a GitLab CI pipeline that builds our "hello, world" application in an AWS runner with ARM gcc and make.

Why this works:

You are telling the LLM exactly what you want in your procedure. AI wants to make you happy, so it’ll follow these instructions. Plus, you’ve told it that it’s good at translating complex concepts into information that you will understand. 

Next up: The government system navigator. 

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (The Fact Checker)

Yes, LLMs hallucinate, so you might be wary of their ability to fact-check. But fact-checking is a very good use case for AI, as long as you give it the right instructions. 

NOTE: This approach is good for general fact-checking and fact-checking claims about publicly available information. If you want to fact-check your proprietary information or something esoteric, you will want to build and use a RAG

Here is a great fact-checking template you can copy/paste:

You are a tireless researcher and excellent at fact-checking.   

Thoroughly fact-check the text I provide below. Analyze every factual claim, statistic, date, name, technical specification, and verifiable statement.

Your response should only include a "fact-check list" section with:

**Claims that should be verified:**
1. [Specific factual claim 1]
2. [Specific factual claim 2]
N. [More...]

**Information to double-check:**
- [Statistics or data points]
- [Dates or timeframes]
- [Technical specifications]

**Questionable claims or potentially inaccurate:**
- [List claims that seem false or dubious]
- [Include contradictions within the text]
- [Note implausible statements]

**Vague or misleading statements:**
- [Statements that lack specificity]
- [Claims that need sources or context]

**Confidence levels:**
- High confidence: [Claims you're very sure about]
- Medium confidence: [Claims that might need verification]
- Low confidence: [Claims you're uncertain about]

--
Text to fact-check: [PASTE YOUR TEXT HERE]

An example:

You are a tireless researcher and excellent at fact-checking.   

Thoroughly fact-check the text I provide below. Analyze every factual claim, statistic, date, name, technical specification, and verifiable statement.

Your response should only include a "fact-check list" section with:

**Claims that should be verified:**
1. [Specific factual claim 1]
2. [Specific factual claim 2]
N. [More...]

**Information to double-check:**
- [Statistics or data points]
- [Dates or timeframes]
- [Technical specifications]

**Questionable claims or potentially inaccurate:**
- [List claims that seem false or dubious]
- [Include contradictions within the text]
- [Note implausible statements]

**Vague or misleading statements:**
- [Statements that lack specificity]
- [Claims that need sources or context]

**Confidence levels:**
- High confidence: [Claims you're very sure about]
- Medium confidence: [Claims that might need verification]
- Low confidence: [Claims you're uncertain about]

--
Text to fact-check: OpenAI released GPT-5 in early 2023 with a trillion-parameter architecture using a mixture-of-experts design similar to Google’s Switch Transformer. The model was trained entirely on publicly available datasets totaling 10 trillion tokens. GPT-5 can pass the U.S. Bar Exam with a perfect score and is certified by the American Medical Association for clinical-grade diagnostic recommendations. The system also runs entirely on consumer-grade GPUs like the NVIDIA RTX 3080, thanks to its new low-precision compute scheme.

Why this works:

You are giving the LLM very specific instructions, both positive and negative. The LLM will fill out these specific instructions. AI is trying to please after all. Although hallucinations are still possible, these guardrails diminish their chances. 

Next up: The step-by-step guide

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Expert Panel)

Sometimes you want the opinions of a room full of experts. 

Use this pattern when you want to explore different opinions. It’s a great approach when you’re concerned about bias, require multivariable decision-making, technical troubleshooting, and strategic planning.

Here’s a copy/paste template:

Give me multiple expert perspectives on [problem]. 

Simulate a panel discussion with the following experts. Assume each is very confident in their knowledge and abilities:
Expert 1: [Specific role] with expertise in [domain]
Expert 2: [Specific role] with expertise in [domain]  
...
Expert n: [Specific role] with expertise in [domain]

Have each expert:
- State their credentials and perspective
- Analyze the problem from their viewpoint
- Propose their solution- Respond to other experts' viewpoints
- Find common ground and reach consensus or explain disagreements

Format as:
**Expert 1 (Title):** [response]

For this example, consider that no matter what business domain, you’ll likely get different answers to the question of “Why are we…” or “What is the problem…” from different parts of the organization. 

The example:

Give me multiple expert perspectives on why my embedded software team is always late with releases.

Simulate a panel discussion with the following experts. Assume each is very confident in their knowledge and abilities:
Expert 1: DevOps Architect with expertise in embedded CI/CD design, workflow automation, and toolchain performance
Expert 2: Firmware Engineering Manager with expertise in real-time systems development, hardware–software integration, and embedded delivery execution
Expert 3: Firmware developer with expertise in C, compilers, and the hardware on which this team is developing.
Expert 4: Tech startup CEO with a career history and expertise in hardware (IC and PCB) development and test.
Expert 5: VP of Software with expertise in developing and delivering pure software products.

Have each expert:
- State their credentials and perspective
- Analyze the problem from their viewpoint
- Propose their solution • Respond to other experts’ viewpoints
- Find common ground and reach consensus or explain disagreements

Format as:
DevOps Architect: [response]

Why this works:

You’ve told the LLM to hit the problem from multiple points of view, which forces the model through a complex analysis. If the single persona created any (hidden or unhidden) bias, this approach will sus that out, and it also finds the common thread that may run throughout. 

Up next: The Fact Checker

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Persona and Expertise)

The LLM needs to know who it is. 

Here’s a copy/paste template for giving the AI it’s persona and expertise:

You are a [primary role] with the following specific expertise:
- Credential 1: [Specific qualification]
- Credential 2: [Specific experience]
- Credential 3: [Specific specialty]
What you care about: [What they prioritize]
Communication style: [Use my communication style | Use typical communication for a person of this expertise]
Given this task, [specific task or question].
Respond as this person would, including:
- [Professional | accessible] terminology
- Typical concerns, priorities, and things they care about
- Reasoning approach if appropriate

An example:

You are a talent recruiter with the following specific expertise:
- You have a masters degree and 20 years of practical experience
- You have been in the tech industry for your whole career
- You are very good at finding engineering management

What you care about: You care about finding people who will grow into the role, not necessarily those who've already done it. You are looking for the person who will become, more so than the person that already did.

Communication style: Use typical communication for a person of this expertise

Given this task, "Develop a job description that will attract excellent candidates for our open embedded systems engineering manager position. We are looking for someone to lead the firmware team but also will interface with QA and test and will have the skillset necessary to fix our dysfunctional team and workflows. Don't mention the dysfunctionality outright. Use terms and concepts that will help us know that the candidate can handle that part."

Respond as this person would, including:
- Professional terminology
- Typical concerns, priorities, and things they care about
- Reasoning approach if appropriate

Why this works:

When you tell it who it is and how you’d like to them to communicate, you narrow the focus of the LLM. You’ll get better quality and sometimes faster responses (although speed is not the purpose). It helps the LLM go directly to relevant data in its knowledge base. 

Up next: The Expert Panel

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (A Series)

A short time ago, I provided a series on how to talk to AI to get what you want out of it. Today, I start a new series that is a companion.

This series focuses on the starting point for “Roles, Goals, and Structure.” 

A great way to start your conversation is with a template based on what you’re trying to accomplish. It provides you with a pattern and structure, eliminating the need to reinvent a new prompt each time. 

Over the next few days, I’ll provide some good templates for starting your conversation with AI. You can copy/paste these and customize to your needs.

Up Next: Persona and Expertise template

Flush Your 5-Year Plan

The people who want you to buy tickets and stand in line at the front door tell you that you need a 5-year plan.

They tell you that your future is 100% in your hands, under your control. You just need a plan and then execute that plan. 

“Where do you want to be in 5 years?”
“What’s your plan to get there?”
“How will you achieve that?”

And then, they sell you on it. They help you decide where to be. They help you plan it out. They help you figure out how.

Guess what? Making your plan is their plan, not yours. 

We do need direction. But we need direction like a compass, not a map. 

What guides that direction? Curiosity. Meaning. What makes you you?

We do need a framework and some discipline. A set of daily, weekly, and monthly habits that help move us, not keep us stuck.

Bad habits and practices keep you stuck. 

You’re gonna wander a bit (and that will feel scary). You’ll probably go backwards sometimes (and that will feel terrible and frustrating). 

The best gift you can give yourself is to allow this. All of it. You’re on your own timeline, and your timeline is not time-bound, nor is it the timeline of the people who want you to buy the tickets.

Flush your 5-year plan, and start being you today. 

On Gratitude…

Gratitude is for everyone. It’s universal. 

No matter who you are, where you are, or what circumstance you’re in, you know two things: 1) you are alive, 2) it could be worse. 

Gratitude can start there. 

Of course, many of us don’t need to start there. You can start a million places. 

We can start with those around us. We can start with what we have. We can start with opportunities on the horizon. We can start with who we are or who we’re becoming. We can start with where we’ve been or where we’re going. We can start with the warm sun or the cool breeze. We can start with the green field or the high-rise apartment. 

Start where you want. Start where you can. Start anywhere. 

But start. Gratitude is for everyone. 

The Requirements Crutch

As a junior engineer at an aerospace company, I learned a valuable lesson about what I’m supposed to do — always ask, “What are the requirements?”

The senior engineers and the program managers are figuring out what to make. And they pass that information along to the team in the form of requirements. 

The set of requirements forms the basis for all technical discussions.

“What do the requirements say?”
“Is that a ‘must-have’ or ‘nice-to-have’ requirement?”
“No, that’s not a requirement.”
“But the requirement says…”

The junior engineers aren’t the ones figuring out what to make. They are the ones doing the low-level work of making it. You don’t have to worry too much about the validity of the requirement, just what it means. 

Everyone assumes that the requirements are correct. That someone else has done the thinking. 

But someone has to do that thinking. Someone has to ask not just what it says to build, but whether it’s the right thing to build in the first place.

If you never challenge the requirements, you might build the perfect answer to the wrong question.

What’s Inside the Black Box

A “black box” is an engineering term that means a system whose internal workings are either unknown or irrelevant. Only the inputs and outputs matter. We use it for both design and test purposes. 

Your car is a black box to you, the driver. You don’t need to know how the engine, drivetrain, and electronics work to drive it. Only how to use the steering wheel, pedals, and, of course, how to connect your phone to it. 

However, to the designers and manufacturers of your car, it’s not a black box. It’s a white box. They know the innards. How each piece fits together. What each does and when. 

And most importantly, they know what’s going to happen and why when you turn the wheel or put your foot on the gas. The system is deterministic. If you turn the wheel to the left, the car will always, 100% of the time, go left.

LLMs are black boxes, but not just to the users. Unlike your car, they’re black boxes to their creators. 

AI creators know “sort of” what’s inside, but not exactly. Also, they don’t always know why stuff comes out given what went in. 

From one point of view, that’s a little scary. From another, it’s an opportunity. 

Maybe the trick isn’t trying to crack open the box. It’s learning how to steer it well enough to get where you’re going.

Should AI Run the Human Resource Department?

Let’s start by acknowledging the elephant in the room. AI is already running a lot of HR departments. 

HR departments use AI helpers for the following areas:

  • Recruiting — job description creation, candidate screening, etc — 99% of hiring companies surveyed  use AI in their hiring process in some way. 
  • Performance appraisal and ranking — Half of those surveyed use AI tools for daily performance management, morale gauging, ranking, and feedback generation. 
  • Compensation — salaries, benefits, etc — Over 40% of those surveyed use AI tools for compensation and benefits ranking and management. 

Some of the reported benefits:

  • Productivity/efficiency of the HR team
  • Navigation of complex systems
  • Compensation equity
  • Bias reduction
  • Cuts costs

That’s good, right?

AI helps all of us knowledge workers. You should be using it (correctly).

HR has “human” in its name. Humans work. Humans lead.

The HR department should definitely be using AI, but when it comes to HR leadership, let’s be sure to keep the humans at the center. 

Being Impressed

It’s natural to be impressed by those who occupy the same genre’s as you — profession, interests, etc. 

Successful entrepreneurs impress other entrepreneurs and entrepreneur wannabes. Wayne Gretzky impressed other hockey players and fans of the game. Hendrix impresses accomplished guitar players and rock music lovers. 

If you’re a student of the genre, either as a participant or a fan, you develop an eye. 

What makes us impressed? 

Skills? Accomplishments? Process? Effort? Outcomes? Knowledge? How?

Sometimes being impressed can demotivate us. “I could never…” 

But also, maybe we’re most impressed when someone else reveals what’s possible. 

AI and Calculating Risk

Apparently, we dread making work decisions the most. 

Popsci published interesting findings from a psychological study on the life decisions we fear the most. We fear the ones we think are the riskiest. Here’s the top 5:

  1. Accept a new job
  2. Quit one’s job without an alternative
  3. Invest money
  4. Drive a car
  5. Become self-employed

Three of the top 5 relate to our work. To be honest, I’m a little surprised by a lot of this. First, how is quitting without an alternative riskier than accepting a sure thing? And don’t get me started on “drive a car.” I can only assume that the (in)famous “Mechanized Death” video has been reinserted into High School driver’s education training.

If we acknowledge the connection between our work and our finances, then we see that 4 of the top 5 have a financial component. 

My current daily life requires me to make decisions around all of these top 5. Not that I’m offered a job, quitting a job, or becoming self-employed each day, but that I’ve made these decisions recently, and have to live with their outcomes each day. I roll them around. Question them. Often want to change them. And yes, investing as well, because my previous investments are now funding those decisions. 

How does one accurately calculate these risks? Is there such a thing, or are these risks a feeling?

AI can help us with the math part of this, if that exists (it does).

But it can’t help with the feeling. That’s all you. 

Systemic Intertia — Mobile Phone Carrier Edition

I recently tried to switch mobile phone carriers. The goal — save money on the plan and get new phones for free. 

Spoiler alert: I really tried, but I didn’t end up switching. 

The system is set up to keep you where you are. If you’ve tried this, then you know the struggle. If you want the TL;DR, just jump to the conclusions section. 

First, will I save money on the plan? 

I made a spreadsheet that compared my plan and carrier to the other two (use ChatGPT, Perplexity, Claude, etc to help you with this). FYI: all three toss streaming TV services into the mix, so they go into the spreadsheet also. Regardless of advertisements, when you compare plans with similar features, including streaming services, all three are about the same. OK, $10 here or there depending on some specifics, but if you already have “the right” plan for you (ie, the features are what you actually use and need), then the one you want on the other carrier is within about $10 per month. 

For me, AT&T is about $324, Verizon is $312, and T-Mobile is $315 with 4 lines, the features we need, and the streamers we watch. 

Second, can I really get new phones with zero money and no strings?

Sort of. All three advertise free phones when you switch. However, there are always strings, but maybe those strings don’t matter to you. The big string is that you must commit to a specific plan for a specified period — typically three years. They tie that commitment to the length of the financing on the phone. Wait, they say it’s free?! In reality, you are buying the phone through a finance program (with proper credit checks), and they reimburse you for the monthly payment. You might also have to trade in your current phone, which may not cover the cost of the new phone, in which case, you don’t get it for free, regardless. 

Third, what is the process?

Start with the carrier to whom you want to switch, not with your current carrier. But what about those famous retention incentives? Shouldn’t I start with my current carrier to see if they’ll sweeten the pot, like my friend told me about? Short answer — no. They won’t give you something that compares to the switchover deal (and you’ll understand why by the end of this). You might get a little sweetener, but that’s it. 

You can go through the new carrier’s website, click the buttons, answer the questions, and, in theory, the new phones will show up at your door. When they show up, you just turn them on, and whamo, your new service is up and running. Again, sort of. This could work, but many people have had lots of problems with this. I started down this road, but I could never trust it to complete it this way. 

So the “better” approach is to call. But you already know where this is going. Calling any of these companies is an absolute nightmare. It’s the ultimate test of the human spirit. Even calling the new carrier, who wants to make it stupid-easy and frictionless for you to switch, somehow makes you want to jump out of a window. It’s torture. I did this also, and it just plain sucked. 

The best approach is to walk into one of the carrier’s stores. Let’s assume you’ll get a good customer service person (not always true). If so, you should be able to walk out of the store with new phones and everything switched over. But again, clear your afternoon. It’s gonna take a long time.

One observation about these carriers’ stores: the Apple Store seems to have downgraded the customer experience at many of these places. All of the carrier’s stores have an Apple Store-like vibe that makes it difficult to know what to do or find someone to help you. I stood in one of them for 15 minutes with zero people asking if they could help me, nor could I even discern the workers from the customers. No uniforms. No location cues. Nada. If I know who I’m supposed to talk to, I’m happy to be the aggressor, but I just couldn’t discern who that was.

Fourth, coverage.

If you live in an urban or suburban area, it probably doesn’t matter, and you won’t have to worry about it. Not true for rural areas. I live in a semi-rural area of eastern PA. So let’s name names here. Regardless of what Billy Bob says about T-Mobile’s coverage, they don’t cover my area well at all, including my house. 

To be fair, AT&T and Verizon’s coverage isn’t perfect either. I have plenty of dead spots on my normal running and cycling routes, and even at one of our regular Thursday night restaurants. But they are better than T-Mobile around here. 

It’s hard to test the coverage of a new carrier unless you have a friend who has that service. However, there are a few resources available. One is the Signal Finder app. That app will tell you the signal strength of the various carriers’ towers at your location. You have to infer whether that signal strength is good enough, but it at least gives you a relative understanding. Another is online forums, such as Reddit and your local community’s Facebook page (if it exists). Use your preferred LLM to do this search for you. If you have an unlocked phone, you might be able to use a temporary eSim to test it yourself. Be forewarned, it’s an arduous process and you will have to sign up for something from the carrier that you want to test.

So coverage made T-Mobile a non-starter. 

The bottom line is I ended up exactly where I was. No change. 

Conclusions:

  1. Apples-to-apples plans across all 3 carriers are generally priced about the same. You can make one carrier less expensive than the others if you can fit into a lesser plan or meet some specific feature set that you can take advantage of. But…
  2. If you overpay for your current plan, switching plans with your current carrier is just as economically rewarding as changing carriers. And much easier. 
  3. You don’t switch by starting with your current carrier. Or at least, not without extra work or potentially surrendering your phone number and going without service for some period of time. 
  4. Because of this, and how much more valuable new customers are over current customers, your current carrier has almost zero desire to give you a retention incentive. Since you start with the new carrier, your current carrier doesn’t even know you are canceling their service until you’re down the switching service road. Therefore, they know that most people who call to cancel their service are just trying to get that retention bonus.
  5. If you want to switch, walk into the new carrier’s store and talk to a person. 
  6. The main benefit of switching carriers is that you can get new phones for free or almost free. New phones for free can be true, but there are strings. Only you can decide whether they’re worth it. 
  7. The process is set up to keep you with your current carrier. That’s why new customers are so important and valuable. It’s hard to switch. It takes grit, determination, and time. During the process, you will feel like something will go wrong.  
  8. Does coverage matter to you? 

Systemic inertia is real. Systems are everywhere. Our culture and world are governed by them. It’s up to us to change them if we want to. 

You Should Jump More

How much do you jump?

Kids jump all the time. But if you’re an adult, especially an older adult, you probably don’t jump much. 

Jump for what? I might fall. It’s hard. It’s weird. I’m heavy. It’s tiring. I’ll hurt myself. It’s a kids’ thing. 

Jumping requires every part of your legs. If you took 10 minutes today and simply jumped — up and down, side to side, jumping jacks, squat jumps, hurdles, you name it — you’d be feeling it. You’d get a great workout. 

And the next day, you’re legs will be screaming at you. That’s how you know it was good for you. 

What other things did you do regularly as a kid that you should put back in our daily lives?

You should jump more. 

The Pause

Pause. Deep breath. 

Look in the other direction, or a couple of different directions. Just look. Grab a coffee. Read something. Talk to someone. Take a walk. 

Don’t worry. Your brain is still percolating. 

Hustle culture underrates the pause.

The Teeter-Totter

Do teeter-totters even exist anymore? 

Oh, yes, they do. If not on the playground, then certainly in life. Sometimes you’re up, and sometimes you’re down.

Be careful when you’re up, when you feel like you’re on top, because once you peak, you’re on the way back down. 

No matter if it’s you personally, your company, or your beer-league hockey team, it takes someone on the other side to help you go up, or you’re stuck at the bottom. 

When you’re at the top, you have a choice in the way you act. You also have a choice in the way you treat those standing around, spectating, and encouraging. And you certainly have a choice about the way you treat the person sitting in the seat on the other side. 

These choices matter. 

Building Professional Teams

I just took a behavioral assessment called the Predictive Index

I don’t know how I scored, or if my answers are acceptable to the organization for whom I took it. However, I understand why an organization would have somebody take this assessment.

It’s about building teams. 

Teams that work. Teams that thrive together. Teams that care about what they make and how they make it. Teams where the tension is productive rather than toxic. 

We’re talking about culture, of course. 

That stuff matters. Especially when the work is hard, the stakes are high, and the timeline is tight.

I’m a team builder. I’ve built great teams, and I’ve also missed horribly on some hires. It does matter.

Building the right team isn’t just about experience and credentials. Not everybody needs to be a clone. You want complementary misfits. Especially in small teams. 

Just remember, hiring isn’t dating.

The Problem with a Gravel Driveway

I grew up in a house with a gravel driveway.

As a kid, a gravel driveway was kind of a bummer. You can’t skateboard on a gravel driveway. Nor can you play hockey (my sport of my youth), rollerskate, or ride your Big Wheel.

The problem with the gravel driveway is that it’s uneven, loose, shifty, and sharp. 

But you sure can approach the driveway at mach speed on your bike, slam the brakes, and leave long, dusty skid marks.

Maybe you can’t coast or glide , but you can kick up a cloud of dust and leave your mark. 

Optimizing the Funnel

You can find approximately 256939 courses and coaches to help you optimize your sales funnel.

Language, layout, colors, steps, offers, etc. They all claim they can help you get more clicks, conversions, and yeses. Emotionally charged. Data-driven. Proven strategies. 10x your conversions. 

You can optimize the funnel to the nth degree, but if nobody wants what you have, 10 x 0 is still 0. 

Start with something that makes a difference. Something people care about. 

If your offer doesn’t matter, no funnel trick will save it.

The funnel is just a delivery system. 

What are you delivering? 

What’s Needed Right Now

The Eisenhower Principle teaches us that we should focus on what’s important, rather than just what’s urgent (for someone). 

This certainly has been a life-changing concept for me. I’ve become an expert at sorting the important from the urgent, and it’s made me much better and happier. It’s made me a better leader. It’s made me better at helping others.

But sometimes they align. Sometimes the urgent thing is also the important thing. 

In that case, do it. There is no tomorrow or Monday or later today.

Do it now.

The Bottom of the Hole

You usually start digging the hole with enthusiasm and optimism. 

Just a few shovel-fulls and I’ll find what I’m looking for. Yeah, sure, I’ll probably break a sweat. I might have to go a little deeper than I hoped. No problem. I got this. 

After a bit, you’re much deeper than you expected and still haven’t found what you’re looking for. Plus, you weren’t expecting all of those rocks and that hard red clay. You’ve tossed the sweatshirt aside, and the blisters are starting to form on your hands. 

But you’re sure it’s there. You’re still committed. You just grabbed the big digging bar. 

Now you look up and realize that the hole’s deeper than you are tall. You still haven’t found it. The sweat’s pouring off your brow. You stink. Your hands are raw, and your shoulders are on fire. You’re so full of dirt, your spouse wouldn’t recognize you. 

It’s dark at the bottom of this hole. You’re starting to question whether what you’re looking for is even here. 

The thing is, this isn’t your first hole. When you climb out and look around, you can easily see the other holes you’ve started. All have ended like this one. Too deep. Too dark. Nothing in them. 

Do you keep digging here at the bottom of this hole, or do you start a new one? Again.  

If you pick a new spot, won’t it just end the same? If you keep digging at the bottom of this one, is it a fool’s errand?

Sometimes, the best thing you can do is stop digging. Climb out. Rethink. Rest your shoulders. Grab a drink. Find a better map.

And when you pick up the shovel again, wherever you choose to dig, you’ll do it wiser.

90% of the Work

Many fall into the trap.

The trap is thinking that the idea is the magic. The idea is the work. The idea is what matters. The right idea will create your product and company.

Yes, you’ll need a good idea. But ideas are a dime a dozen. The idea is 10%. 

But 90% of the work is building it. That’s where the risk is. That’s where you learn what it should be. That’s where you build the story. That’s where you spend the time, effort, and money. 

It’s easy to get enamored with the idea. It’s hard to build it.

Worry less about protecting what’s on the napkin and more about protecting what’s in the lab. 

Dancing Bears

In a trade show hall, it’s easy to spot the big budgets or the big budget wanna-be’s.

They have the dancing bears. OK, maybe it’s not actually dancing bears. Perhaps it’s a larger display, an army of attendants dressed in a uniform that stands out, or a coffee bar with attractive staff. 

I’m never sure if these budget outlays are worth it. I suspect it’s sometimes yes and sometimes no. No real definitive answer. 

You definitely need to stand out. But is that enough?

You can command attention with the dancing bears, but once someone looks your way, what are they actually seeing? Is there anything to trust?

Being seen is different than being noticed. Being seen requires clarity and value. Authentic presence.

That’s the work.

Send out the dancing bears if you want, but make sure there’s something worth dancing for.

Playing One On TV

You could get “playing one on TV confused with “fake it till you make it.”

They are similar, but not the same. 

For example, I’m an introvert, but I can play the role of extrovert for a bounded period of time. I can do the networking meeting. I can stand in front of the room. I can make small talk at the cocktail party. 

I’m not faking anything. I’m playing the role. 

The extroverted part of myself is down in there. He just doesn’t run most of my day. So I tap into him when I need to.

There’s a difference between pretending to be something you’re not and stepping into a version of yourself that already exists, even if it’s not your default mode.

It’s not deceit. Its range. It’s not inauthentic. Its intention. 

Knowing you can step into a role, deliver, and then step out again is a skill. And like any real skill, it gets better with time, repetition, and reflection. The more you do it, the easier it becomes to access that part of yourself when it matters most. 

It’s not about faking. It’s about stretching. 

It’s about accessing the full range of who you already are.

Hammers and Nails

You need both, but don’t get them backward. 

The nail precedes the hammer. It’s the reason the hammer exists. Not the other way around. 

Hammers looking for nails rarely find their market. 

How To Talk to AI — Some Final Thoughts

Talking to AI is a skill.

It’s a skill you can and need to learn. You can get better with practice and iteration. You can get better by gaining a more intuitive feel for how to talk to it.  

LLMs and AI aren’t going away. They’re only getting faster, better, and more deeply embedded in the way we work, create, communicate, and solve problems.

Your competitor is using AI. Your colleagues are using AI. The content creators are using AI. 

You’ll need to use it better or more creatively. 

Because in the future, AI will either be working for you, or you’ll be working for it. 

How To Talk to AI — Use My Voice

Look at the newsfeed on LinkedIn. 

It’s 90% useless AI-generated blech. It’s carpeted with beige and unremarkable sameness. The posts start the same way. Look the same. Include the same emojis and bullets. 

But every once in a while, you come across one that hits different. Why? Because it sounds and looks like a real person created it. Therefore, it was either handwritten by a person or created by someone who knows how to utilize the LLM effectively.

In this case, effectively means “sounds like me.”

One of the most powerful things you can do with an LLM is teach it to sound like you. If you’ve written articles, newsletters, blog posts, or even just sent emails, you already have a dataset.

Feed that to the model.

The more you share, the better it gets at sounding like you. Or at least, sounding like a human.

Boss directive:

“I need to reply to a billion emails today. Help me.”

Prompt:

“You are my writing assistant. 
Attached is a bunch of email replies and other snippets that I’ve written in the past. Use these as a reference for tone, style, format, and how I say things. Adhere to this.
Now you’ve read many of my previous emails, posts, and replies. You know my voice — it’s clear, thoughtful, confident, conversational, and a little dry. I avoid buzzwords and prefer simple, precise language. Occasionally, I make a joke.  
Now write email replies in my voice for all of the attached emails. Keep it warm, appreciative, and conversational. Use my phrasing and cadence. Don’t ever make stuff up. Ask me questions if you need context or I must answer a question.”

Next up: Some final thoughts.

How To Talk To AI — Iteration Beats Perfection

We’ve talked about roles, goals, structure, clarity, using more words, asking questions, and slowing it down. These are all important to help you get what you want. 

But also, it’s a conversation. So have the conversation.  

Whichever LLM you’re using, it understands the conversation. It knows the history. It remembers what you told it. Work through the problem iteratively, much like you would with a real person.

Try stuff in layers. Try different stuff. Go this way. Now go a different way. 

If you want a great result, don’t expect to get it on the first try. Instead, build in feedback cycles. Test tone, style, structure. Ask for rewrites. Push it further.

Boss directive:

“We need to figure out the right message for our audience.”

Prompt Sequence:

Round 1 – Exploration:
“You are a senior B2B marketing strategist and copywriter. Start with thinking aloud: ask me 3 clarifying questions about our audience’s biggest pain point, our unique differentiator, and what we believe success looks like (metric, emotion, action). Then generate 5 headline + sub‑headline pairs based on your responses. Each pair should vary in tone (confident, curious, direct, metaphorical, risk‑avoidant).”

Round 2 – Iteration:
“I’d like to combine versions 1 and 3. Now give me 3 more that combine those concepts.”

Round 3 – Refinement:
“Let’s go with numbers 2 and 3. For each, rewrite the headline + sub‑headline to emphasize measurable benefit in the first 3 seconds of reading. Then draft 2 versions of the short body copy (~100 words) for each pair.”

Round 4 – Iteration:
“No, I don’t like any of those. I do like the direction of the first headline, but it needs to feel more urgent. Scrap what you have and give me 3 more headlines + subs that are along the line of the first one.”

Round 5 – Iteration:
“Ok, I like 2. Now let’s go back to the draft versions of the short body copy. Give me 2 ~100 word versions of copy for this.”

Round 6 – Polish & Finalize:
“I like the first one. Now you’re the final editor. Provide the final headline + sub‑headline + final body copy. Then propose 2 alternate body copy tweaks (tone or style change). And provide a short rationale (~50 words) explaining why this version will convert best, based on audience insight and our goal.”

Round 7 – Iteration:
“I like the 2nd one, but can you pull in the style from the first?”

And so on. 

It takes patience and work from your side. Your still the boss. Be the boss. 

Next up: Use my voice.

How To Talk to AI — Coach the Process

It’s easy to treat AI like a vending machine: Insert prompt. Get result.

Fair enough. That is probably fine for many of the tasks you give it. But if you want quality and nuanced output for a complex task, you want to think more like a coach, rather than a director shouting “action!”

Great outputs come from great thinking, and great thinking is a process — observe, analyze, decide, create. AI can help at every step if you know how to coach it.

Sometimes the best approach is to use multi-step prompts. Keep the LLM focused on one thing at a time. 

Boss Directive:

“I want to understand why our retargeting is underperforming. Then fix it.”

Prompt Sequence:

1. Start with analysis.
“You are a senior performance marketer with deep experience in PPC and retargeting. I want you to take a slow, methodical approach. Analyze the performance summary below and identify the top three underperforming segments. For each, provide a thoughtful hypothesis as to why retargeting is falling short. Explain your reasoning step by step, and don’t rush to conclusions.”

2. Move to strategy.
“Based on your hypotheses, brainstorm three specific retargeting strategies. For each, explain how it addresses the problem, what assumptions it relies on, and any potential tradeoffs. Prioritize clarity and depth — I’m not looking for buzzwords, I want insight.”

3. Then create.
“For each strategy, draft three versions of retargeting ads (headline + body copy). The tone should be solution-oriented, confident, and empathetic. After each ad, include a short rationale explaining your creative choices. Focus on message-to-audience fit.”

Prompt your AI like you would coach your smartest intern. They can do it. They just need a little coaching. 

Next up: Iteration Beats Perfection

How To Talk to AI — Slow It Down

AI can be like your teenager who doesn’t want to mow the lawn. 

It’ll do it, but if you don’t guide it, it’ll rush through and do a crappy job. It’s done, but it might not be good.

If you want it done right, you’ve got to slow it down.

The same is true for an LLM. So tell it to slow down. 

Boss Directive:

“We need a new landing page because our conversion rate is falling. I’d like to see a few designs.”

Prompt:

“You are a senior SaaS marketing copywriter with deep experience crafting high-converting landing page copy, particularly for startups launching new features to existing users and prospects. In this case, we’re introducing a new time-tracking feature for our productivity tool, SlotRight, which is primarily used by freelancers and small agencies. These are busy, independent professionals who value clarity, control, and ease of use. They’re motivated by time freedom and reliability, not hype or jargon.
I want you to go slowly and methodically. First, think through what makes a great landing page design for similar products. Think about the headline and subhead. Then consider the emotional and practical outcomes this product enables. Think about how this fits into the intended SlotRight experience. Think about what kind of language best resonates with this audience.
Then, and only then, develop html prototypes for 5 different versions of the landing page, each with a slightly different angle (e.g. confidence, calm, focus, simplicity, momentum). Choose color themes that fit both the tone of the landing page and our branding. Use natural, benefit-forward language. Don’t be clever at the expense of clarity.
Take your time. Reflect before generating. If anything feels unclear, ask me questions first.”

Maybe seems weird to tell AI to slow down, but like your teenager, it’s just trying to get done. 

NOTE: Speed is also your enemy with data analysis and software development. When using AI to perform these tasks, ALWAYS tell it to be slow and methodical and use language like “accuracy is more important than speed.”

Next up: Prompt the Process, Not Just the Output

How To Talk to AI — Suggestions and Several Versions

AI is a tireless brainstorming partner. That’s one of its best features.

So use it that way.

Don’t ask for “the perfect headline” or “the best CTA.” Ask for 10. Or 25. Tell it you want a whole bunch of ideas to pick from, mash together, or get inspired by.

The point isn’t to choose one and ship it. It’s to explore. When you prompt for quantity, you get diversity. And sometimes, hidden in version #8 is the one you’d never have come up with yourself.

Boss Directive:

“We need some ideas for a new blog article to be targeted at our freelance customers.”

Prompt:

“You are a content strategist and blog writer who specializes in B2B SaaS companies that serve freelancers and solopreneurs. Your job is to generate a list of strong, timely blog post ideas that speak directly to the challenges and interests of this audience.
The goal is to provide helpful, relevant content that positions our company as a trusted resource, drives organic search traffic, and engages readers enough to subscribe or share. We want posts that freelancers will actually click on, read, and feel seen by.
Please generate 40 blog post title ideas that are:

* Focused on productivity, client management, time-saving tools, financial tips, or mindset shifts

* Specific and benefit-driven (not vague thought pieces)

* Aligned with our tone: friendly, practical, and encouraging

* Suitable for freelancers who are juggling multiple clients and trying to grow sustainably

Include a 1–2 sentence explanation under each idea that explains why it would be useful or compelling to this audience. Don’t repeat themes. Don’t make stuff up. Ask me questions if you need specifics or wonder if there are some new directions I didn’t lay out that might be a good path to explore.” 

You’ll get 40 ideas from this. Many will probably suck, just as if you and your team were sitting in the conference room brainstorming. But many will likely be good. 

You can see we’re building these on all of the rules we’ve discussed so far. 

Next up: Slow and Methodical

How To Talk to AI — Clarity and Ask Me Questions

You want clever output.

However, to get what you’re looking for, your prompt needs to be to the point and specific. Boring, really. Plus, you want the LLM to ask you questions and make it interactive when useful. 

An LLM is very sure of itself. To the point of just making stuff up (hallucinating). Therefore, reminding it that it should ask you about stuff it needs is an important skill of talking to it. 

Sticking with our marketing theme, here’s something that you, as the boss, might need to do.

Boss Directive:

“I started writing the launch email for the new product, but I ran out of time and energy. We’re announcing our new productivity tool for freelancers. I need it finished.”

A useful prompt for asking AI to do it looks like this.

Prompt:

You are a senior marketing copywriter with a background in SaaS and tech product launches. You know how to take a rough draft and turn it into a clear, persuasive email that builds curiosity and drives click-throughs — without making it sound like generic sales copy.

You have a feel for voice and tone, especially in fast-growing startups. You understand how to write like a human: warm, specific, and benefit-focused, but not pushy.

Here’s the rough draft I started. Please complete and polish it. Keep the voice consistent — conversational, smart, and a little punchy. Don’t change the opening unless it really needs help. Make sure the product benefits are clear, and the call-to-action stands out. Suggest alternate subject lines if you have better ones.

START DRAFT:

Hey [First Name],

Ever feel like your calendar is winning and you’re just along for the ride?

We get it. We’ve been there.

That’s why we built SlotRight — your new favorite tool for getting your time (and headspace) back.

END DRAFT

Do not make stuff up! Ask me questions when you need more details on the product, the audience, or past emails.

This prompt follows all of the rules so far: role, goal, structure, verbosity, and now clarity, and ensures it will ask you questions about stuff it needs to know. 

Next up: Ask for Suggestions and Several Versions

How to Talk to AI — If You Don’t Say It, It Won’t Know (More Words, Please)

Unlike with humans, where less is more and simplicity is king, AI needs more words from you. 

Brevity doesn’t help. Succinctness doesn’t help. Inference definitely doesn’t help. 

AI doesn’t infer what you meant, only what you typed. Verbosity helps. Overexplaining helps. More data helps. Even rambling on helps (sometimes). 

Boss directive:

“Our Facebook ads for the new coaching program aren’t converting like they should. We need better messaging.”

Here’s how to ask your friendly neighborhood LLM.

Prompt:

“You are a senior direct response copywriter who specializes in Facebook ads. You’ve worked with coaching programs, especially ones that target professionals who are looking to make a meaningful change in their careers.

You understand how to write ads that connect emotionally, build trust fast, and drive action from people who are skeptical or distracted.

We’re marketing a career coaching program for professionals ages 35 to 50 who feel like they’re stuck in their careers. They’re not in crisis, but they know they want something different. Some feel like they’ve missed their window. Others feel like they’ve plateaued. They’re capable, responsible, and looking for clarity.

The coaching program helps them rediscover what they want, regain their confidence, and design a next step that fits their current season of life.

Please write 10 Facebook ad variations. Each one should include a scroll-stopping opening line (hook), a few lines of emotionally resonant copy, and a call to action. Vary the emotional angle (e.g., frustration, hope, ambition, regret, clarity). Avoid buzzwords. Avoid vague promises. Keep it tight, clear, and human.”

More is more. 

Next up: Clarity Over Cleverness

How to Talk to AI — Roles, Goals, and Structure

AI works much better if both you and it know who it is —  which role each of you is playing.

The first thing to remember is that you’re the boss. You’re always the boss. To get the most and the best out of an LLM, you have to think and direct as the boss. 

So be the boss.

Here’s an example of a problem that you, the boss might need to solve with the team.

Boss directive:

“We need to win back lapsed customers before Q4. We need to draft some email subject lines to test?”

Then, think of AI as your most promising intern with gallons of coffee at its disposal. Smart, can-do attitude, ridiculously book-smart, quick, literal, and tireless. 

But like any intern, it only performs well with clear direction, including its goals and the structure of how you’re trying to accomplish the task. 

So here’s what the boss directive looks like when you translate it to an effective LLM prompt.

Prompt:

“You are a digital marketing associate at an outdoor gear brand. Craft three email subject lines aimed at previous buyers who haven’t purchased in 6 months. Tone: friendly but urgent. Keep each to 50 characters.”

Give it a role, a goal, and structure. You’re not just asking for ideas. You’re about to unleash the greatest intern. 

Next up: If You Don’t Say It, It Won’t Know

How to Talk to AI to Get What You Want (A Series)

AI can be both the most brilliant teammate or the worst. 

It all comes down to how you talk to it. 

Talk to it? Yes. ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini are Large Language Models (LLM). They understand language (maybe like humans, maybe not, the jury is still out), or at least, they “work” with language.

Regardless, you gotta talk to it. 

So here is a series on how to talk to AI to get what you want out of it. The common vernacular is “prompt engineering.” 

The theme throughout this mini-tutorial is work and specifically marketing. I’ll walk you through how you can use an LLM (any of the above will work) to do some professional tasks.

Each article will tackle one key principle, paired with a real-world scenario and a prompt for you to use.

Getting what you want is not just about what you ask. It’s about how you ask.

Tomorrow: Roles, Goals, and structure.

More is More with AI

With humans, less is more. 

Less description. Less narrative. Less words. 

Less is more because our brains work better with simple. KISS. Simple is more coherent. Simple is easier to understand. Simple reaches more people. Simple is more memorable. 

Humans are limited in both memory and brainpower. 

But the opposite is true for LLM AI. 

AI doesn’t have a memory problem. AI doesn’t have a brainpower problem. But it does have a human problem. It has no context. No story. It’s never been there or done that. It can’t feel. 

Therefore, when prompting, more is better. 

More description. More narrative. More questions. More rambling. More brain dumping. More tangents. More run-on sentences. More interjections. More spurious thoughts. More procedure. More steps. More rules. More words.

When asking an LLM AI to help you, more is more. 

The Echo Chamber

It used to be just the “Yes” men, but now it’s pretty much any media channel. 

If you want to, you can find and plug into the echo chamber from any number of outlets. The digital age has supercharged it. Target audiences plus algorithms working together to keep you captured. 

But the echo chamber is a trap. Opinions get reinforced. New information is irrelevant. Doubts get silenced. Disagreements feel like betrayals. 

Back in the “Yes” men days, the smart thing to do was to bring in a skeptic. Someone who asks the hard questions and says, “Are you sure?” and “What about…”

Creative tension and friction were the tools.

As it turns out, those are still the tools. You don’t have to abandon your beliefs, but you can use these tools to test them. To morph them when appropriate. To stretch your mind. Maybe to change it.

Sometimes, the most important sound is the one that doesn’t echo back. 

The Spinning Compass

You’ve seen it in cartoons, maybe a movie or two. 

The compass that spins round and round. Uh oh. 

Which way are we going? Which way should we go? Which way is north? 

Too many opinions. Competing priorities. Competing pressures. Too much noise. Fear, doubt, and even your own ambition. 

If you force a direction blindly, you may end up even further from your destination.

Pause. What can you control? Take a step and then pause again. Where are you now? What can you control? Is this towards better?

Settle the compass. It’s the only way to move in the right direction. 

The Crooked Frame

You notice it right away, and it drives you nuts. 

The picture frame is crooked. Not a lot. But definitely not level. 

Maybe not everyone sees it. But you do. It keeps drawing your eyes. It’s distracting. You can’t unsee it. You can’t ignore it. 

The best thing to do is walk right over there and straighten it up. Adjust expectations? Have a hard conversation? Change direction? Quit? 

You’ll feel it when it’s right.

And then you can focus on the picture again.

The Wobbly Table

I can’t handle a wobbly table. 

If it’s my table, no big deal. I have all the time and resources to fix it myself. And I do. I can’t move on without making it stable.

But what about the wobbly table at the restaurant or in the office? 

Well, I certainly try, but I might not have the ability. Can I adjust the foot? Can I put a coaster under it? Can we move it slightly? Can someone else help?

Maybe. But maybe not.

Sometimes you just gotta find a new table. 

New Roads

Maybe the old road you were on just dead-ended. 
Maybe the bridge is out. 
Maybe it’s closed due to weather or an accident. 

Whatever the reason, you need a new road. A new direction. 

If you’ve been committed to a particular road, it can be hard to change your thinking. You were focused. You were sure. It’s emotional, every bit as intellectual. 

But new roads have something that old roads don’t — possibilities. Including the freedom to choose again.

What is Successful?

What does successful mean?

Well, it depends on you.

It doesn’t need to mean a million sales, readers, or followers. 

Thankfully, it can mean you’re willing to do it, put it out there, and keep getting better.

Keep going. With intention. With humility. With a desire to make it better. 

Not There Yet

Sometimes it feels like you were almost there, or you should be there, or it’s taking longer than it should.

But if you’re not there yet, keep going. 

Keep rowing. Keep digging. Keep walking.

The only way to get there is to keep going. 

What AI Can’t Help You Do

I talk a lot here about what AI can help you do. How you can and should be using it.

However, here are some things it can’t, and will never be able to do.

It can’t help you want. 
It can’t make you care.
It can’t replace courage.
It can’t tell a story about your son at his wedding.
It can’t give your daughter a hug.
It can’t tell you what it’s worth to you.
It can’t risk.
It can’t love.
It can’t be awed.
It can’t be sad.
It can’t forgive.
It can’t worry.
It can’t look forward to the sunset.
It can’t be apprehensive about the upcoming speech.

These are all yours.

Working Smarter and Longer

When we talk about productivity with people, we’re generally talking about doing more in the same amount of time. Better efficiency. How can we minimize steps? How can we reduce repetitiveness? We sometimes call it working smarter, not harder. 

We rarely mean we want them to work more hours (except in the service industry). 

It’s the opposite with machines.

When we build automated testing into our product development workflow, we want those machines running 24×7. Lights out. Hands off. Keep those machines running as many hours as possible. How can we maximize the number of steps? How can we increase repetitiveness? 

We want those machines to work longer.

The good news is that’s what machines are good at. They are great at repetition. They don’t get tired. They don’t get worse at it the longer they do it. They don’t decide they don’t want to. They run equally as well at 3am as they do at 3pm. They have no idea it’s Christmas Day. 

The same is true for AI.

It’s not about having AI replace all of the things our people do. It’s about how do we give the right tasks to AI so that it can work all day and all night, so we can help our people work smarter? 

Everything is a Story

Your clothes. Your car (or lack of). Your social media bio. Your hair style (or lack of). The color of the sheets on your bed. Your job title on LinkedIn. 

The question isn’t if you’re telling a story, but which one. 

Artisans are Still Artisans

For thousands of years, artisans were bound by geography, tools, material, time, people, and skill. 

The sculptor needed the stone, honed chisels, and a small army to move the block into place.
The wooden bowlmaker needed the wood, a sharp blade, the means to turn it, and a village willing to trade.
The dressmaker needed the fabric, a steady hand, and the helpers who kept the loom rolling and dyed the thread. 

Today, for about a $1000, you can own a laser cutter, 3D printer, and a Cricut. And you’ll have them tomorrow. By the evening, you’ll have your first widget.

Technology turned the roadblocks of old into mere speed bumps. You can learn from the best with a click. You can prototype and iterate with a click. You can personalize and ship anywhere in the world with a click. 

The challenge is no longer access. It’s intention.

No one’s stopping you.

With the power to make nearly anything comes the responsibility to make something worth making. Something that provides value. Something worth talking about. 

That is what an artisan is. Somebody who makes something worthwhile. 

The tools are ready.

What will you make? 

Damn Thing

When I hit my finger with the hammer, I usually blame the hammer. “Damn thing!”

Same goes if I bang my knuckles using the wrench, I drop my phone, or if I trip over my untied shoelaces.

Of course, it’s my fault. 

And there you have it. That’s step one. 

Once you acknowledge that it’s you, then you can figure out step two. 

You can’t change what you don’t claim. 

The First One Should Suck

The first one should suck. 

Your first blog entry, book, video, business idea, Python script, painting, clay bowl, and soufflé should all suck. 

Go ahead and hit publish. Buy the ads. Put it in the kiln. Take it out of the oven and dig in.

If they don’t, either you got lucky or you didn’t lean far enough.

Too often, we treat the first draft as the final version. But it’s not. It’s the first draft. It’s the ticket in. It’s the starting line.

The first one isn’t proof of your talent, skill, or whether you might be successful. It’s the proof that you started. 

Embrace the cringe. Get the feedback. 

The first one should suck.

That’s how you know the second will be better. 

The Shortcut Tax

Shortcuts can feel smart. 

You figured it out, or someone gave you a cheat code. Efficient. Easy.

But what did you miss?
What didn’t you experience? 
What happens next time?

When things break (they always break), you might realize that the shortcut came with a tax.

By all means, take the shortcut if it makes sense, but do it with your eyes open. Because shortcuts aren’t always progress. 

And the interest rate is steep.  

You Only Get 150 — Use Them Wisely

Your brain has a limit. It’s 150.

That’s the number of meaningful relationships you can manage at any given time. That includes all of your family, friends, colleagues, community, customers, and followers. It breaks down after that.

If you’re me, you think 150? I can’t properly manage 10, let alone 150. 

Exactly.

Meaningful relationships take energy, presence, and attention. You don’t have 150 best friends. Your inner circle isn’t 150. But you’re circle of influence is. 

People watching, listening, trusting. Whether you realize it or not.

Kevin Kelly talks about 1000 true fans. But even before that?

You start with 150.

The ones who know your name. Listen and watch. The ones who’ll read the email, take your call, show up when it matters.

You don’t need viral. You need to be valuable.

Earn trust. Keep promises. Show up.

You only get 150.

Use them wisely. 

Revisiting autobizinabox.ai (How close are we?)

Back to this one.

So are we there with AI Agents? If I build the right agent (still a software development task, not a basic user UI task), could I actually make autobizinabox.ai a reality?

TL;DR — Not yet, but AI Agents get us much closer.

What It Probably Can Do Now

  • Launch the shell company: register a business name, get EIN, set up banking, basic bookkeeping & tax setup (via APIs).
  • Buy a domain, spin up a simple website, and generate starter content.
  • Create social media handles, draft posts, and schedule campaigns.
  • Propose ad strategies, set up initial ad campaigns using targeting heuristics.
  • Draft product variants and positioning.
  • Generate basic CAD mockups or technical sketches.
  • Automate order routing, shipping estimate logic, and integration with third‑party logistics systems.

All of that could be possible, but it’s an ambitious software development task (which does make it a good project idea). Plus, I’m very skeptical of the quality of its generative abilities at this time. In fact, there is no way generative AI is up to the task yet. 

What It Can’t Do (Yet)

  • Business, specifically the types of business interfaces required for freakthefishout.com (ie, supply chain, etc), is still about relationships. Humans interacting. Especially B2B interfaces. 
  • Testing the products. OK, maybe an Optimus grabs a sample, walks down to the local pond…Forget it. Not yet. 
  • Manufacturing quality control. Not on something like this. Maybe on something less physical.   
  • Replace genuine human trust, relationships, or brand reputation built over time with customers.
  • Create marketing that deeply resonates without human iteration, feedback, cultural nuance, or adaptation. 
  • Manage the inevitable breakages in the supply chain. Supply chain providers still have desk phones. Who’s gonna call? Who do they call?  
  • Manage regulatory complexity, compliance subtleties, contracts, disputes, or legal risk across borders. Governments are still humans. 
  • What happens when the BassBlaster+ breaks in the field? 

To be honest, there are a host of others as well. Some of these will likely move to the “it’s possible” category over time, but it will require not just better AI (specifically generative AI), but also a cultural transition on the business side. Humans still run business. Especially B2B business. 

autoboxinabiz.ai is still in my “business ideas” list, but we’re not yet ready to shop it on Sand Hill Rd. 

Getting Starting with AI Agents

Until agents, AI interaction was single-task oriented. 

You told it who it was (”You’re an expert tech marketing copy writer”) and gave it something to do (”take the provided background material about our company and product and develop a landing page in html for our product. We’re B2B, and the audience for the landing page is leadership.”)

Within that single task, the AI engine may do a few things (read the material, summarize it, find the parts for our audience, do its marketing thingy, and then generate html), but they were all directly related to a single request, and it has been provided with all of the information or told how to get all of the information.

An AI Agent can string a bunch of those requests together, including making decisions and finding the information it needs, like a person. 

Here’s a great example:

Prompt: “Look at my Google Calendar and find a time for a 30-minute meeting with Sarah in the next 2 weeks.”

Before agent functionality, you would have to do the following to make it work:

  1. Open your Google Calendar (and Sarah’s if she shared it).
  2. Check your availability (or screenshot your calendar and give it to the AI).
  3. Ask the AI to draft a message for the invitation
  4. You create and send that invitation (email, calendar invite, etc)

Now, the agent can do all of the following:

  1. Access your Google Calendar itself.
  2. Find availability.
  3. Consider constraints such as travel time.
  4. Ask you about preferences, such as when you typically like to meet.
  5. Propose some times.
  6. Actually book the meeting.

It’s now a handoff. Delegation in addition to automation. 

This is how we move toward organizational automation. 

Remember, the goal is to have AI work for you, or you’ll be working for AI. 

Have You Heard About AI Agents?

A while back, I wrote a little story about you, Mr. Fancy Pants, and how AI can take your innovative fishing rig idea and turn it into a full-blown business.

AI can’t yet do everything in that story, but now the framework is in place. That framework is called an “AI Agent.”

The best way to think of an AI Agent is that it’s the person who orchestrates all of the steps. It’s the conductor of the symphony. In an assembly line manufacturing system, it’s the conveyor belt. In an office, it’s the office manager who runs the ship. 

The AI Agent is the glue that pulls it all together — the connector. It can allocate tasks, serialize tasks, make decisions, and solve problems. 

By the way, AutoBizInABox.ai is available. I’m thinking about sucking it up. 

Maybe you should beat me to it.

Price and Better

Is a $100k car better than a $20k car?
Is a $10k couch better than a $350 couch?
Is a $3 peach better than a $0.50 peach?

First, we get sucked in through marketing and advertising. Next, we see what the neighbor’s got, and that feeds the ruse. The final step is to justify it to ourselves. 

We’re told all up and down the chain that if it’s more expensive, it must be better. 

But what does better mean?

Make sure you’re the one defining that for yourself. 

Burn the Manual

You can get the degree.
You can get the certificate.
You can get the credentials.

And there’s a manual for how to get those credentials. 

The manual tells you what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. 

That’s fine. Until it’s not.

Most musicians you know can’t read music. Tons of artists making an impact never took art lessons. Many professional athletes didn’t start in their sport until high school or college. The entrepreneurs they make movies about didn’t start with a business plan. Many best-selling authors have no training beyond high school English class. 

Movements that made a difference didn’t start in a strategy session.

Sometimes you gotta burn the manual, dive in, follow your gut. 

100/0

What are your expectations?

Sometimes you’re looking to get something out. If you put X in, you want Y out. It’s why we exercise, work on SEO, and hire employees. Maybe you’re hoping for an input/output ratio of 50/50, or better yet, 20/80.

But what about the most important commitments in your life? Your relationships, community, and anything or anyone else that you love?

It’s 100/0.

That’s how you make it successful. 

Take a Day of Learning

Shut the door. Turn on Focus Mode.

Grab your coffee, tea, or sparkling water. 

Dig in.

Not just knowledge, though. Learning.

Watch, read, listen — and then do.

End the day ahead of where you started. 

Too Good To Be True

Make $10,000 a Week From Your Couch — No Experience Needed!
AI Will Run Your Entire Business So You Don’t Have To!
Lose 20 Pounds in 7 Days — Without Exercise or Dieting!

These are easily dismissed. But the more subtle…

This AI Tool Writes Perfect Emails Without You!
This One Hack Will Make You Instantly Happy!
Buffet’s Secret Investment Formula!

And the possibly clickable…

Automate the Tasks You Hate!
Get Back an Hour Every Day!
Never Doubt Yourself Again!

One point of view says that if it seems too good to be true, it must be. We arrive at that perspective honestly. Our experiences and personal history shape how we perceive the world and those within it. We’ve been burned. We’ve looked stupid. We’ve been disappointed. 

It’s why children are generally more gullible than seniors. 

But it’s also why children are more open than seniors.

Openness is the cost of possibility. It’s the space where creativity lives and new ideas erupt. 

Cynicism protects, but it also closes. Openness risks, but it also receives.

Some things are just as they seem — too good to be true. But some things are better than we could have imagined — too good and true. 

You won’t know unless you stay open. 

But Is It Better?

You can outsource your financial planning, but is it better?
You can ask Alexa to turn out the light, but is it better?
You can hire a lawn service, but is it better?
You can load the dishwasher, but is it better?
You can flip the switch on the electric fireplace, but is it better?
You can have your groceries delivered, but is it better?
You can swipe left or right, but is it better?
You can have the mechanic change the oil, but is it better?
You can electronically pay your bills, but is it better?
You can have the landscaper plant your flower beds, but is it better?
You can hire a service to decorate for the holidays, but is it better?
You can video chat rather than show up, but is it better?
You can have AI write the letter, but is it better?

Only you can answer these questions for yourself. 

Beware, because convenience may thwart meaning. Ease might kill engagement. And faster isn’t always better.

Sometimes the doing is the point.
Sometimes the work is where the life is.

What are you trading?

And is it worth it?

The Straight Line Paradox

On the map, it’s usually easy. 

Point A to Point B. Set the goal. Make the plan. Start driving. 

Clean. Predictable. Efficient. 

But it never works that way.

We hit traffic and detours. We miss exits. We run into flooded streets, trains stopped at the crossing, and protestors shutting the route down. None of that is on the map. 

How could it be?

The map has no temporal context. It doesn’t know anything but a static route. It doesn’t see the flat tire, the person who wants to talk, or the temporary shutdown.

But would be who you needed to become if the line were straight?

The straight line looks great on paper.

But it wouldn’t have been better. 

What She Said

From Accenture’s CEO Julie Sweet:

“We’re trying to—in a very compressed timeline where we don’t have a viable path for skilling—sort of exiting people, so we can get more of the skills we need.”

Two crazy phrases in this one — “viable path for skilling” and “sort of exiting people.”

Really?

C-Level phrasology has always been interesting. A mix of cover-your-ass with just enough truth to defend it on the stand at a later time. It can be hard for workers to decode what they’re really saying. Luckily, I’m well-versed in translation.  

Here’s what she said:

“It looks like we won’t meet our promised financial goals. (Could be this quarter. Could be next quarter.). Therefore, we’re laying people off. Those that we’re laying off fit into one of two categories: a) we think we can replace them with AI, or b) they can’t help us get more profitable with AI.” 

One more reminder — figure out how to get AI to work for you, or you will work for AI. 

Playing the Hand

You’ll get some cards. They are what they are.

You can hit, stand, or fold.

All can work. All can fail.

Best to learn who’s at the table. 

The Second Bounce

The first bounce gets all the attention.

The idea. The pitch. The launch.

What happens next?

The second bounce is where we see if it sticks, spreads, and survives.

Resilience lives with the second bounce. 

Make it useful. Make it simple. Make it spreadable. Follow the signal. Iterate.

Design for the second bounce. 

Turning the Corner

You can’t turn the corner if you’re waiting for permission.
You can’t turn the corner if you’re waiting to see the whole road first.
You can’t turn the corner if you’re unwilling.
You can’t turn the corner if you’re blaming the last detour.
You can’t turn the corner if you’re mad at the shape of the road.
You can’t turn the corner if you’ve never put the car in gear.

You can’t turn the corner if you’re standing still. 

Dancing Around the Hook

Most politicians, in all of their forms, are usually great dancers.

I don’t mean the Cha-Cha, the Get Sturdy, or the Running Man, although they may be good at those also, at least at the wedding, inaugural ball, or corporate off-site.

They’re usually good at dancing around the hook. 

Jumping on when taking credit helps them, and avoiding it when somebody needs to be blamed.

So where does that leave the non-politicians?

The rest of us — the doers, builders, and leaders — we gotta always own the hook. 

The win and the loss. The one that worked and the one that didn’t. The praise and the consequences.

Real leadership and real difference-making have nothing to do with your ability to dance.

You don’t need to be perfect, but you do need to be accountable. 

So dance when you can, but when the hook comes around, jump on it.

We need you on it. 

Co-…

Co-Pilot.
Co-Intelligence.
Co-Writer.
Co-Coder.
Co-Creator.
Co-Marketer.
Co-Strategist.
Co-Advisor.
Co-Researcher.
Co-Planner.
Co-Worker.

Just remember: it’s not here to replace you. It’s here to be your “Co-”

If you know how to lead it. 

Borrowing a Flashlight

You think you got it right.

You built it, after all. You understand it. You’ve lived it. Defended it.

Plus, it’s hard. You’ve spent a lot of time and effort. Mental and physical. 

Which is exactly why you might be wrong. If you’re too close, you can stop seeing clearly.

Ask yourself the following:

  • Are you justifying instead of being open?
  • Are you protecting instead of improving?
  • Are you telling the whole story?
  • Could there be another way?

That’s where the outsider might help.

No bias. No baggage. Nothing to defend.

You need truth. Not validation.

When we lean into truth and give ourselves the permission to change our minds, we can go anywhere.

Sometimes the best move is to borrow someone else’s flashlight. 

Only You

With over 8 billion people in the world and 600 million products listed on Amazon, it seems hard to be unique.

Thousands, if not millions of people, do what you do. They have the same title, skills, and tools. Just look around on LinkedIn to confirm this. 

Same with your product. Dozens or hundreds offer the same features, same problems solved, and the same colors. 

So how do you stand out?

You don’t win by being just another, or slightly better, or slightly cheaper.

You win by bringing you to the table. Unmistakable you.

No one else has your story.
No one else sees the world like you do.
No one else has your fingerprints.

Find the only you. 

MVA

Minimum Viable Audience

Can you lead if nobody is following?
Is it worth doing if nobody sees it?
Does it make a difference if nobody hears it?

Well, it depends.

Who’s it for? 

Because it might be just for you. If so, you’ve got your MVA.

Now get started. 

Streaks

Streaks can be motivating or daunting.

They can keep us on the right path, or keep us from the right path. 

What streak do you have going that you should keep? Which one should you quit?

Today is the perfect day to keep a streak, quit a streak, or start a new one. 

Giving Up

All the inspirational posters talk about not giving up.

But they’re wrong. Sometimes you should give up.

But not because it’s hard, or uncomfortable, or you can’t yet find a solution. 

You should give up when it’s wrong — the wrong path, outcome, or the ends don’t justify the means.

Giving up is the best approach when it’s wrong. 

Pointing

Sometimes it’s, “Hey, look at that over there.”

A spectator. Observer. Unengaged. 

Sometimes it’s, “Hey, let’s go over there. Let’s go that way. Let’s get there. Come with me.”

Sometimes it helps to point. 

Renting Versus Owning

I’ve been a renter. College, just out of college, and many vacations over the years in many locations.

I’ve been an owner of rental properties. College apartments and single-family homes. 

As a renter, I just showed up, kept the place nice, paid my bills, and called the landlord when there was a problem that needed fixing. 

As the owner, I cared. Deeply. About everything. Even things I didn’t cause. The pipes. The paint. The neighbors. The future value of the place. I couldn’t just show up.

Same thing happens with work.

You can rent your role. Check the boxes. Wait to be told. Clock in, clock out.

Or you can own it.

Solve problems that might not be technically your problem. Put yourself on the hook. Show up like your name is on the building.

You can tell who’s renting and who owns it.

AI won’t ever take the job of the owners. 

The First Draft Lie

You call it a “first draft” for a reason.

It’s the raw footage, not the edited version. It’s the napkin, not the document. It’s some tiles laid out on floor in front of you, not the cut and glued pattern on the wall. 

You don’t have to make your first draft the final plan. It’s a starting point. A vehicle to get your thoughts down. A catalyst to help you think about it and see where it might go. 

Write the garbage version. Say it badly. Build the barely-functional prototype. 

The first draft allows you to play. You can rethink it. You can change directions. You can change your mind. 

You don’t have to show the public.

But you gotta start laying bricks. 

Dead Air

If you’re a broadcaster, you never want dead air. 

Dead air indicates a problem. Something technical, procedural, or even human. The producer panics. The talker scrambles. The audience wonders. 

That silence screams loudly — what’s wrong?

But in your life, dead air is a signal.

Dead air gives you a chance to listen, breathe, think, feel, and allow the next thing to rise. 

Embrace the dead air. 

The Cutback

The cutback, sometimes called putting his foot in the ground by announcers searching for new descriptions, is a fundamental tool of the running back.

Everybody and everything is flowing to the right — the lineman blocking, the running back following,  defenders pursuing. The play unfolding like a river flowing. 

And then BLAM. 

He plants his right foot. Defies inertia. Cuts hard left. Against the flowing water. 

If he’s picked the right moment and executed it correctly, the defenders don’t have a chance against the river that’s already flowing. 

Because now it’s chaos. Defenders legs and bodies still moving right as they reach back to the left. The blockers keep them flowing. The angles collapse. 

The cutback wasn’t part of the plan. 

But he saw something and made a split-second decision. An opening. An opportunity. Or maybe he saw that the plan was going to fail miserably. It was going nowhere. A loss of yards. 

And he had the guts to cut back.

Sometimes you gotta take that opportunity. Even if it doesn’t score. 

Trust your eyes. Trust your knowledge. Trust your people. Trust yourself. 

Keep your eyes open for the cutback opportunity. 

Having It Your Way

You can probably have it your way. 

It might even feel good or comfortable in the moment, or make you feel like you’ve accomplished whatever you set out to do. 

It’s also usually easy to say, “This is how I want it.”

But what would it take to have it our way? Or making it possible for them to have it their way?

You can build something — a business, an organization, a family, a marriage — around that. 

Can’t Afford It

We do it all the time, especially as parents.

We say we can’t afford it. Whatever it is. Could be money. Could be time. 

We say it because it’s irrefutable. It’s a get of out jail free card. But it’s usually not quite true. 

What we really mean is we don’t want to prioritize the money or time. We’d rather spend it on something else. 

It’s healthy to occasionally rethink our priorities. 

The AI Plateau

Everyone’s using AI now.

We use it to draft emails, frame out contracts, identify plants, translate to English, tailor resumes, develop code, write marketing copy, analyze data, TL;DR stuff, plan dinners, build spreadsheets, and find analogies. Or, at least, that’s how I use it. But I suspect you and your colleagues are similar. 

And we’re getting pretty good at it. I mean, who even “Googles” things anymore?

AI is an amazing personal helper. A power saw rather than a hand saw. Personal automation. 

But companies? We’ve hit a plateau. 

Small business adoption is stalling. Mid-size companies are backing off. Enterprises are stuck in pilot mode — testing, pausing, hesitating.

Why?

Because personal use is simple. 

Organizational use is messy. Hard to grasp. Is AI another worker or is it still a tool? 

It affects systems, roles, trust, and risk. It requires change. It requires forward-thinking. It requires trying stuff that might not work. 

Most leaders haven’t figured out how to cross that chasm. 

But that’s the opportunity. 

Right now, AI work is mostly a side hustle. Quiet. Individual.

That’s not transformation. That’s personal productivity (although that is a worthy goal for workers themselves).

If you’re the leader who can figure out how to build AI into your operations, not just your inbox, you can win.

And then the magic happens — you can free up your people to do the work that actually matters.

Because AI isn’t the goal. It’s the amplifier. It’s the power saw. 

We want to use AI — not work for it.

But Will it Make Money?

From one or even several perspectives, this is the first and only question that matters.

Will somebody pay you for what you made?
Or, will somebody pay you for what you do?

This is what the market asks. Investors, bosses, even friends and family. We’ve normalized getting paid as a measure of what it’s — and you’re — worth. If you’re “in business,” then this is the question at the top of your mind.

And fair enough. Our system is built upon the exchange of money.

It’s an important question, but is it the most important? 

Here are some other important questions that need to be asked:

Will it make a difference?
Will it build trust?
Will it help someone?
Will it teach me something?
Will it get me in the room I want to be in?
Will it make me proud five months or years from now?
Will it attract the kind of people I want to work with?
Will it challenge the status quo?
Will it create a new system?
Will it make me better?
Will it make someone else better?
Will it make the system better?
Will it get me out of my comfort zone?
Will it make others want to talk about it?
Will it build community?

These questions get at the heart of the matter — what’s your signal? The signal is your work. Your impact. The dent you make in the world.

Profit isn’t the signal itself, but it rides on top of it. It modulates it. Amplifies it. Distorts it. Sometimes overtakes it.

But the signal is still yours to send. It’s the heart of the matter.

So yeah, we should ask, “Will it make money?”

Just don’t stop there because snake oil makes money if you know how to sell it.

But it poisons the well. 

Gaming the Algorithm

First, there was SEO (Search Engine Optimization). 

If you were clever, you could figure out how Google ranked websites in its search results. Once you knew that, you could game the system. Once you could game the system, you could sell your services to others. 

Then, Google became more sophisticated and outpaced the gamers. Then the gamers caught up. And then SEO became YouTube and social media algorithms. 

And so on. Round and round.  

Is this the game you want to play?

You can chase the algorithm, but they have the control, and they’re trying to keep out the gamers. 

But there is a different and deeper algorithm. One that hasn’t changed in 1000 years. 

The human one.

It’s built on curiosity, trust, relevance, usefulness, and impact. 

The “you should see this” impulse and it spreads around dinner tables, break rooms, and group texts. It’s shared not because it was optimized for the algorithm, but because it hit something real. 

You can choose. You can play for the click, or you can play for the conversation. 

The real algorithm is still human. 

Desires and Needs

Hunger is physical. 

Our body needs food. Our physical state drives physical hunger.

Hunger is also emotional.

We desire particular tastes, forms, and food experiences. The stories we’ve experienced, we tell, and we hear drive emotional hunger. 

One keeps you alive. The other makes you feel alive.

We need food. But we want tacos. We want the corner booth, the smell of lime and cilantro, the basket of chips before the meal. The margarita. 

We want the feeling.

Needs keep the system running. Desires shape the experience.

This isn’t just about food. It’s how we build products. Lead teams. Raise our kids. Choose careers.

Desires and needs don’t always align. Sometimes they conflict. Sometimes they trick. 

Our job isn’t to eliminate desire or shame it. It’s to see both. To design for both. To build stories around both. 

A life that meets only needs is starvation. 

Showing Up

A friend of mine has an amazing little trick she uses with her kids. 

Well, it’s not a trick. To call it so is to undervalue its brilliance and the truth it uncovers. It’s psychology at its most powerful. 

Two photos:

  1. Very happy and excited
  2. Sad, upset, crying, or angry

In the moment (whatever moment that is), you simply show them each of these pictures of themself and say, “Both of these are you. You get to decide which one of them you want to show up. It’s up to you.”

How you show up is a choice. 

At the table. At work. For your partner. For your family. For your community. 

You are all those people in the pictures. 

How do you want to show up for this? 

Starting Your Story

Have you seen the (brilliant) Miller Lite 50th anniversary commercials? 

Christopher Walken voicing over, “Legendary stories start with a Lite.” 

It taps into something powerful about human nature (as does most good advertising) — life is all about stories. 

And the start is magic. You’re staring at the fork in the road. You can go either way. Which way? Well, where do you want to go? You don’t know? Then it doesn’t matter. Just go. 

Yet, starting is sometimes the hardest part.

We don’t like unknown. We like guaranteed. We want to know the ending before we commit to the beginning. 

If this, then that. Go this way, you’ll end up here. 

We obsess over perfection. Over what they’ll say. Over how we’ll look. Over losing what we have. Over never making it to the destination.

So we stay put. We stay in our lane. We keep sipping the green juice. We keep funneling the 6% into our 401k. 

But that’s not how legendary stories are made. 

Legendary stories start with an unknown ending and a host of possibilities. 

They start with a desire and a little risk. A little curiosity. A little stupid. A little brave.

They start before the plan is ready. They start with motion.

So go ahead. 

Crack one open and take that first step. 

Start your story.

Open to Changing Your Mind

In Season 5, episode 2 of Downton Abbey (IYKYK), Carson and Mrs Hughes face a disagreement. 

He and she are on different sides of an issue he feels strongly about, and he’s uncomfortable. He doesn’t like it when they’re not on the same side. 

But also, he’s convicted. He believes he’s right. She’s wrong. He can’t simply go along to get along. He’s too principled for that. 

However, he remains open. He admits that he’s willing to be convinced. All he needs is someone to convince him. 

And eventually, a simple conversation does the trick. He’s been convinced. 

That’s what we need more of. More openness without tossing our principles to the wind. 

Open to new data, new arguments, new feelings. Open to changing needs, changing perspectives, and changing culture. Open to changing one’s mind. Open to being convinced. 

Open.

Changing your mind isn’t a weakness. It doesn’t mean you don’t have principles. 

Openness is the bridge between conviction and wisdom. Without it, all you have is stubbornness.

Another Trip Around

Today is my birthday.

Thanks. No big deal.

Yet, it is a big deal. Not because it’s me, or it’s a milestone, or there’s some need to celebrate. 

It’s a big deal because a) there aren’t that many left, and yet b) there are many left. 

What will I do with them? 

I plan to keep the “I will be” list long and inspiring. 
I plan to express my gratitude.
I plan to keep learning.
I plan to ensure those around me know I love them.
I plan to get better.
I plan to take it as it comes.

I plan to get started. 

PhDs

I stood in front of potential investors, giving my pitch, and was asked the following:

“Are you all working full-time in the business?”
“Yes”
“Oh, good, we like our founders to be PhDs.”

A little confused, I said, “PhDs??”

“Poor. Hungry. And desperate.”

Oof.

When you see movies about startups or hear founders talk on Guy Raz’s show, you get a lot of this. Couch surfing. Living in a barely running sub-compact (that you park around the corner so nobody sees). Skinny and scrounging. Two different shoes or homemade clothes. Lots of kindness from family, friends, and sometimes strangers. 

Poor. Hungry. Desperate. It makes a good origin story. 

You have two things when you are in this state:

  1. Nothing to lose. 
  2. No power.

That’s right where they want you.

Nothing to lose means you should have the fire to do whatever it takes. Yet, no power means you’re desperate for the money/resources. Which means if they give it to you, they have the power.

The magic here is hungry.

You don’t need to be poor or desperate to be hungry. Hungry can come from vision, hope, and desire — a deep inner need to make a difference. 

So the question isn’t just, “Are you hungry?” The real question is, “Who holds the power when you are?”

Because with hunger as the fuel, power is the steering wheel. If you hand off the steering wheel, then someone else is in control of your destination. 

What to Avoid Today

Maybe avoid one or some of these today:

  • Hitting snooze
  • Sitting all day
  • Taking what’s yours
  • Looking past the person talking to you
  • Talking over someone else
  • Checking your phone in the middle of a conversation
  • Getting upset about gas prices
  • Taking revenge
  • Skipping a lunch break
  • Staying comfortable
  • Overexplaining
  • Overpromising
  • Underdelivering
  • Staying in your lane
  • Sugar substitutes
  • Doing the easy thing
  • Busyness
  • Filling the silence
  • Focusing on what you can’t control
  • Doomscrolling
  • Saying “I can’t”
  • Reacting to a post
  • Waiting for permission
  • Multitasking
  • Gossip
  • Quicksand
  • The News

If you need something to do, here are some ideas

Hidden Comparitus

We all know the jealous form of comparitus. 

The teenager on Instagram. The mid-career professional in the high-end neighborhood. The younger brother at the family reunion.

But there’s a hidden, and just as insidious, form of comparitus.

It’s not based in jealousy. It’s based in false equivalence. 

It shows up like this: “There are plenty of people my age who are running marathons. Why can’t I run marathons?” And, “Look at all of these people who have started and succesfully run their own businesses. Why hasn’t mine been successful?” And, “Einstein published his most famous papers in his 20s. Why haven’t I?”

On the surface, this looks like a “good” form of comparitus. After all, it can be motivating: If they did it, I can do it too. That belief is often the first spark of ambition. It’s important to believe we can do it. 

But here’s the psychology trap. Social comparison theory tells us we constantly measure ourselves against others to gauge progress. It is natural. However, those comparisons only work if the contexts are equal. Most of the time, they aren’t. We don’t see the unseen variables: genetics, geography, family, decisions, timing, networks, even luck. 

We assume similarity where there is none. Yet, we just drop ourselves into the middle of their situation. 

The antidote isn’t to stop comparing. It’s to start appreciating. Gratitude for your own story. Your own timing. Your own path.

The trap is asking, “Why not me?”

The freedom is realizing, “I already have mine.”

Being Inspired Versus Feeling Inspired

You can set it up perfectly. The perfect time, surroundings, and tools. 

Maybe it’s overlooking the water at sunrise. Or the mountains at dusk. Or a balcony as the city bustles below. 

You’ve got your favorite brush, notebook, or coffee mug.

And nothing.

Not because you don’t want to feel inspired. You just don’t.

Until you start. 

Then you realize it’s not the sunrise, or the notebook, or the mountains.

It’s the work. It’s the act of doing. 

If you want to be inspired, start the doing. 

Remarkable vs Mainstream

When the iPhone first came out, it was remarkable. 

But not everybody wanted one. Price. AT&T. And most importantly, “What will I do with this thing?” The culture was set up against it. It was remarkable. 

Then, over time, the culture flipped. 

Now, the iPhone, plus the equally remarkable Android phones, are mainstream. 

New model releases don’t impress us much. Using them is just part of our daily existence. Oh crap, I dropped mine. I’ll just get another. 

Apple, Samsung, Google, and all of the others spend just as much, actually more, engineering time and effort to make the next version as they did the first one. It doesn’t cost them any less. It’s not easier.

Who benefits when the remarkable becomes mainstream? 

It’s a bit of a paradox — the work is hardest when no one cares, but the payoff is biggest when everyone does.

The Telephone Switchboard Operator

Less than 100 years ago, nearly every phone call in the world passed through the hands of a human. 

There was a central office. A physical place. There, the switchboard operator sat. Waiting for that little blinky light. When you picked up your receiver, bingo! They plugged in a cord to your jack, asked who you wanted to reach, and then connected the other end of the cord to the recipient’s line. 

A few seconds later, you could begin your conversation. 

Although they sometimes crossed the wires. Instead of Aunt Linda in Shamokin, you’d get Jack from Pennside. 

It was a job of listening, remembering, and moving fast. It was important. It mattered a great deal. 

In the mid-20th century, about 342000 people were employed as telephone switchboard operators. 

Today, there are zero. 

Technology erased the role. But it didn’t erase the work. Technology took away those 342000 jobs, but then created millions of new ones. These new jobs could not have been conceived of while people still plugged and pulled the cables by hand. 

We don’t yet know what the future holds with AI replacing jobs that exist today. The ground is shaking. 

We’re human, and humans get nervous when the ground shakes. We get worked up. We shake our fists. We implore the system not to let it happen. 

Yet history reminds us: — the ground always shifts, and it’s in the shifting that we find the next place to stand.

What to do Today?

Here are some ideas for you to do today:

  • Take a walk
  • Make a list
  • Knock items off the list
  • Call a friend
  • Call your mother
  • Call your son
  • Dream about the future
  • Read a chapter
  • Write a page
  • Tell someone “Thank You”
  • Say “Hi” to a stranger
  • Hold the door for someone
  • Have coffee or tea at the coffee shop
  • Clean out a drawer
  • Organize your desk
  • Stretch your back
  • Drink an extra glass of water
  • Cook a meal 
  • Try a new recipe
  • Donate something
  • Read a poem
  • Sit outside and watch the people, cars, or birds
  • Watch the sunset or sunrise
  • Play a song you loved in high school
  • Find a new song
  • Pray
  • Write down five things you’re grateful for
  • Write down five things you want to let go of
  • Plan your next trip (the big, exciting one)
  • Learn one new word
  • Forgive someone (in your head or out loud)
  • Forgive yourself
  • Plant something
  • Water your plants
  • Weed your garden
  • Cut the grass
  • Take a cold shower
  • Take a hot bath
  • Organize the garage or basement
  • Organize the spice rack/drawer/cabinet
  • Paint a wall or room
  • Throw away all of the old, useless paint
  • Rearrange the furniture
  • Pay a bill early
  • Roll the coins
  • Put $20 in a safe place for another day
  • Put your watch on the other wrist
  • Look through an old photo album
  • Back up your photo library
  • Delete old emails
  • Unsubscribe from 5 things
  • Change your phone wallpaper
  • Try a puzzle
  • Paint on canvas (by numbers, or freehand)
  • Sketch something
  • Design a flag for your household
  • Learn a card trick 
  • Build a house of cards
  • Ask ChatGPT/Claude/Perplexity to explain Bitcoin as if you’re 8 years old
  • Ask ChatGPT/Claude/Perplexity to explain why socks disappear in the laundry
  • Ask ChatGPT/Claude/Perplexity to help you design a new card game
  • Ask ChatGPT/Claude/Perplexity to research the history of your building, house, or plot of land
  • Go a different way
  • Get started

Today is a great day. What will you do?

Ranked but Not Defined

The internet, although not explicitly created for it, promised freedom. At least in one aspect.  

No gatekeepers or tollbooths. No rigid categories. Anonymity. You could be anyone, say anything, and build something new.

I’m an engineer in the traditional sense (a category), but also, I am these other things that the internet has made possible. I’m a spewer of thoughts and pictures. I’m a connector of people. I’m a builder of a company. 

But now in the place of categories come rankings.

Followers. Engagement. Reviews. Clicks. Eyeballs. Now I’m ranked. 

Along comes AI.

AI adds prediction to ranking. We’re labeled by the mysterious patterns we never see, but the ghost in the machine does. It nudges us further into our own echo chamber.

Yes, freedom from old hierarchies, but at the same time, tethering us to new ones. 

It sort of feels like a destiny over which we have no control. And yet, it’s just a tool. The internet and now AI can amplify either sameness or possibility. They can reinforce the system, or they can spark something new. 

The difference is awareness. Awareness of the systems, but also awareness of each other. 

Awareness reminds us we’re not just data points in a model. We’re people, and people can still surprise. We can think. We can feel. We can care about each other. 

That’s the real freedom. 

Uh Oh

By 2026, one in three companies expects AI to run their entire hiring process. 

So what does that mean?

It means resumes will be judged by patterns, not potential. It means interviews will be scored by tone and keywords, not by chemistry, curiosity, adultiness, and grit.

And that’s generally bad.

It also probably means less nepotism, less “who you know” and more “what you bring.”

And that’s generally good.

Maybe the real opportunity in hiring and being hired isn’t to fight AI, but to raise the bar for being human. 

Kicking the Hornets Nest

One second, I was innocently trimming the cherry tree on my front walk. The next, I was running across my front yard, yelling and swatting like a maniac.

Hornets. The angry, malicious, bald-faced kind.

And they got me. Just a few, but still.

It was a big nest. The size of a basketball. How could I have not seen it? Obviously, this thing had been growing over the whole summer. There must have been hornets in and out for a couple months. 

How could I be so blind?

In work, leadership, and life, danger doesn’t always announce itself, or it disguises itself, or even hides in plain sight. You don’t see it till you get stung.

But also, maybe that’s OK. Maybe getting stung was the best path. At least at this time. It helps you course correct. It helps you change your focus. It helps you find a better path. It helps you learn to spot signs earlier.

Sometimes the only way to know the danger is real is to kick it and see what happens. 

Do Something Hard

Do something hard today.

Your later today self will thank you for it.

Choose the hard path today.

Your tomorrow self with thank you for it.

Preference, Productivity, and the Future of Work

Companies today are conflicted. 

Especially companies that invested in an address. A parcel of dirt with concrete and steel on top of it. 

Company leadership today is conflicted.

Especially leaders who prefer to sit in the room, or even more so, those who want to sit at the front of the room.

Employees today are conflicted.

Especially employees with children, a hankering for travel, or an extroverted need to be with others. 

If you ask people where they want to work, you’ll get an answer. If you measure where they work best, you may get a different one. Same is true for company leadership and the finance department. 

But the path forward — what we’re looking for — is the overlap in the Venn diagram. That’s the sweet spot. Where people want to work and actually get it done.

How can we find that overlap? Can we design a work system where you get to work where you want most of the time, and also deliver what we need most of the time? Can we design a system that works for the finance department and leadership?

Those are good questions to ask and wrangle.

But they’re not the most important ones. Leadership, the finance department, and even the employees miss the important one.

How do we design a work system that makes all of the people’s lives better, including our customers? 

Because the office doesn’t matter if the work doesn’t matter.

Wrangling the Leverage

Have you ever tried to dig a hole with a shovel, digging bar, and clam-shell post-hole digger? 

It’s a miserable experience that takes a long time, rarely produces the depth you want, and likely leaves you with bloody knuckles and a sore back. At least that’s been my experience. 

Plus, adding a helper or helpers doesn’t actually help dig that single hole. Nothing can be done in parallel for a single hole. 

With multiple holes to dig, now you can add more people, each digging their own hole. If you had an army, you might be able to build a fence in a reasonable amount of time. 

Enter the two-man, gasoline-powered auger. 

Four handles, an engine, and an auger bit, anywhere from 2 to 18 inches in diameter. 

The auger doesn’t just add speed. It adds leverage. But that leverage takes two people to wrangle. One person can’t manage it. Together, however, you can sink that hole in minutes. 

Would you use it if you had access to it? 

You and your team have access to a similar power — AI. 

If you embrace it correctly, think about it the right way, and employ the right grip on it, you and your team can go faster and deeper than you could ever have without it. 

Your Value

You’re faced with a choice. 

The person in front of you is asking you to lower your value. Maybe that person is a potential partner or friend. Or maybe they’re a potential client or investor.

It’s part ideological, and part practical. 

You know that if you lower your value far enough, you’ll win. 

What is your value? Do you have an accurate view of your value? Are you overvaluing yourself? Is this question an indicator that you need to rethink your value?

Maybe the win isn’t in proving your value to them, but in refusing to let them define it for you.

Resistance and Income Generating Activities

You know the difference between being busy and being productive. 

We can fool ourselves. We can convince ourselves. We can justify it to ourselves.

So we clean the desk, reorganize the files, tweak the colors, and work on the fun little idea. 

Resistance whispers in our ear that these things are important. 

They’re not. 

The income comes from doing the things that generate income.

Make the call. Send the message. Expand your network. Schedule the meeting. Create the pitch. Try a new pitch. Get punched in the face. 

What are you avoiding right now that you need to do to generate income?

Start there. 

Upping the Ante

Not long ago, off-campus student housing was all about surviving. 

Shared bedrooms, a single shared bathroom, a couch rescued from the curb, stained rugs, and faded paint.

Today? It looks more like a luxury resort. Private bedrooms. Designer kitchens. Rooftop lounges. Fitness centers. Pools. Fire pits. 

Student housing developers are upping the ante. 

But who’s the target? Is it the students or the parents?

Once the ante goes up, there’s no going back. Nobody’s choosing the wood-paneled walls when the rooftop pool is an option. Especially if parents are on board.

Upping the ante happens everywhere. Hotels. Gyms. Cars. Power tools. Phones. Jobs. Even relationships.

Once you’ve had a taste of better, your baseline shifts. You don’t just want it. You expect it.

That expectation creates both opportunity and danger. 

Opportunity because if you’re the marketer who can offer just a little more — up the ante just a bit — you can win. Danger because now you’re on the hook to keep raising it. 

Every time you up the ante, you’re deciding and then signaling what matters.

Is it the granite countertop or the person standing across from it?

The rooftop grill area or the people you share it with?

Up the ante in the right direction. 

Disengaging

You’ve seen it. You’ve experienced it. You’ve been frustrated by it.

Maybe it’s your server, or colleague, or even your partner. It could be your customer, vendor, or CEO. 

The person you’re counting on has disengaged. 

Why do people disengage? 

  • They feel unheard.
  • They feel unvalued.
  • They’re overwhelmed.
  • They’re underwhelmed.
  • They’ve lost trust.
  • They’ve lost interest.
  • They’re burned out.
  • They’re protecting themselves.

When somebody no longer sees a reason to care, they stop showing up. 

The challenge is to restore connection. To create trust. To make it matter again. To make them matter again. 

Because when they feel like they matter, they show up. When they show up, they engage.

Reliability

Things you can rely on:

  • The sun will come up  
  • You’ll need food and water
  • Gravity
  • You and everyone will age
  • Seasons change
  • Time moves forward
  • You and everyone will make mistakes
  • Effort
  • Skill development

Things you can’t rely on:

  • A safe job
  • Market stability
  • A weather forecast
  • Trends
  • Traffic
  • Rules
  • Luck
  • Promises

Plan accordingly. 

The Important Stamp

When I receive an envelope in the USPS mail and it has the word “Important” stamped on the front, I immediately toss it in the trash without ever opening it. 

Because if there’s one thing you can be sure of, any letter containing a rubber-stamped “Important” is the opposite of important.

That wasn’t always true. It’s a recent phenomenon. Maybe 10, maybe 15 years old now. 

What’s happened? Why is this? 

Overuse. Data. Smart marketers discovered they got a higher open rate. Then every piece of junk mail got stamped “Important.” When that happened, the real stuff stopped using it because the signal became noise.

We’ve entered the same arena with AI content generation.

We now use AI to write “personalized” emails, resumes, and cover letters. Two years ago, this was novel. Now it’s ubiquitous. 

Use AI to write the job description. Use AI to screen the candidates. Use AI to select and respond. 

Use AI to customize your resume. Use AI to customize a cover letter. Use AI to select and respond.

The only way to get ahead in this world is to keep upping the ante. Hyperbolic job requirements meets hyperbolic accomplishments. A specific, 15-bullet point skills list meets “I just happened to have all of those specific skills.” More adjectives. More “terrible to amazing” turn-arounds. More zeros of value required meets more zeros of value delivered. 

The stamp has lost its power.

The way back isn’t louder or better AI. It’s being human enough to increase your signal-to-noise ratio. 

Places

Places have characteristics. 

They have a climate, a geography, flora, and fauna. They also have a culture, history, and demographics. They have a look, a sound, and a pace.  

They shape how we feel and how we act when we’re there.

They have meaning.

But is it the place, or is it what we bring to the place? 

The Many Tines of a Fork

Four tines on a fork is the most common and widely considered the best balance of function and form.

Two tines don’t hold enough. Three don’t provide the same balance. More than four, and well, that’s just overkill.

Four tines. Strong. Balanced. Versatile. Large enough to handle the mouthful. Small enough to fit in your mouth.

Life’s forks aren’t much different.

Too few options, and you’re stuck. Too many, and you can’t decide. The sweet spot is just enough forks to give you a real choice without paralyzing you.

Choose your fork. Choose your future. 

You only lose if you turn around. 

Ping Me

On a network, if you want to know if something is alive and reachable, you ping it.

Ping is a computer command that sends a simple message to your intended target. A successful reply gives you some basic but useful information:

  1. I’m alive
  2. Here’s my address
  3. Here’s how close I am to you

If the ping comes back as “unreachable,” then you also get some useful, if opaque, information:

  1. You can’t get to me
  2. I’m powered off
  3. You’ve got the wrong name or address

Ping your friends. Ping your family. Ping your colleagues. Ping your customers. Ping your partners. 

Ping me. 

The Intern With Potential

For the last couple of years, I’ve referred to AI (mostly ChatGPT) as a “greenhorn intern.”

It’s a smart kid who knows a lot of stuff but doesn’t really know how to work in the world. It requires a lot of hand-holding, micromanagement, oversight, and, quite frankly, needs to be corrected all too often.

However, GPT-5 is looking a little better. A little more like a 2nd-year intern that’s probably gonna make it. 

Understands the lay of the land. 
Can do more with an abstract project description or task list. 
Requires a little less oversight and correcting. 

GPT-5 is an intern with potential. 

Ahead of the Curve

Life rides on the curve. 

The mean is everywhere. Everything is average. Everyone is in the middle. 

Statistically, anyway.

But if you can find a way to get ahead of the curve, for just a little while, with at least one thing, you can win. It could be early adopting some tech. It could be trying the thing nobody wants to. It could be listening to the person nobody believes yet. 

  • Experiment early
  • Learn faster
  • Listen differently
  • Challenge your beliefs
  • Ignore the noise

You can’t stay ahead forever, of course, because life rides on the curve. 

But for just a little while, if you can see what others can’t, or do what others won’t, or go where others haven’t.

That’s where the win lives.

At the Gate

I packed the bags and slung them around my shoulders a while ago and set off down the road.

Actually, it’s not just the tidy bags with shoulder straps. I’m also juggling the stragglers that wouldn’t fit in the bags. The two shirts still on hangers, a fan with its cord swinging like a tripwire, and an open box of kitchen odds and ends threatening to spill.

And now I’m standing at the gate.

The guard’s looking at me through the safety of the guardhouse window. He’s on the phone checking my credentials. 

I don’t know what he’ll say. 

So I wait. Trying to keep it all from hitting the ground. My forearms are burning. My back is tired. Things are slipping. I readjust every few seconds.

Any moment now, he’ll wave me through.
Or he won’t.

If he does, I’ll stumble through, drop everything in a heap, and let my muscles recover for just a minute.
If he doesn’t, I’ll have to turn around. And I’ll lug the same load back down the road I just came.

Either way, the waiting will be over.

A Directory

The phone book. The school yearbook. The college course catalog. The glossy, colorful map of downtown with the buildings numbered. The map at the entrance to the mall.

All directories from an earlier time. Directories you hold in your hand or touch with your fingers.

Helping you know the who, what, and where. Orienting you. 

But finite in content and a snapshot in time. Today, yes, but all bets off for tomorrow. And also, these are the ones who paid the fee. And also, these are the ones we care about. 

Premium curation. 

Of course, the internet, phones, and AI have flipped the directory model on its head. Auto and self-curation are a matter of a few clicks.

The infinite scroll feels complete, like it has everything. But it’s curated too. Just less transparently.

Sometimes the value isn’t in having access to everything. It’s in seeing what someone thought was worth seeing.

The Marshmallow Miss

It’s not just willpower. 

You might know the famous “Marshmallow Experiment,” but if not, go to YouTube and search for it. There are dozens of examples. 

You’ll find lots of funny, antsy, and cringeworthy moments of pre-K kids trying to decide whether one marshmallow now is better than two in a few minutes. 

The popular and original hypotheses from this experiment were centered on personal willpower. The kids who waited had more self-control, and that self-control predicted better life outcomes. Better grades, better jobs, better lives.

It’s a tidy, comforting story. Willpower equals success. Delay gratification and you’ll go farther. Plus, as parents, it’s a life skill we can model and teach our kids. Be patient. 

As it turns out, however, maybe it’s not just about self-control. 

It’s also about trust. Would the second marshmallow really show up? Would the adults actually keep their word? That single marshmallow sitting in front of them is a sure thing. 

If a child has been disappointed by adults in their life, they’ll probably go with the sure thing.

It’s also the Powerball dilemma. $500M today, or $1B in annuity over time. But that’s not really a dilemma, is it? Neither is a choice between $5k today or $1B later. If you were deciding between $500k or $5M today and $1B later, maybe that’s a dilemma.  

The point is that you have a price where the unknown future promise might be worth foregoing the sure thing now.

The real test isn’t about patience. It’s about belief.

Do you believe the promise of a future that’s worth waiting for? 

AI Over Recent Grads?

Key findings from a recent survey by monster.com.

  • 67% of 2025 grads say 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. is a thing of the past (up from 55% in 2024).
  • 64% view five-day workweeks as outdated (versus 54% last year).
  • 59% think full-time office work is outdated (up from 54%).
  • 59% believe relocation for a job is outdated.

Combine that with a Workplace Intelligence survey for Hult International Business School:

  • 37% of managers would rather use AI than hire a new grad.
  • 44% prefer freelancers; 45% would rehire retirees.
  • 30% would leave a role unfilled before hiring a new grad.

What does this mean?

It means that Gen-Z wants and expects a different work-life model and that corporate leadership is having trouble coming to grips with it.

37% would rather use AI?

Who’s gonna lose this battle, and does AI tip the scales toward corporate leadership?

AI doesn’t get tired or cranky. AI doesn’t have issues at home. AI doesn’t want to attend the 3rd grade’s production of Columbus coming to America at 10am on a Tuesday. 

But also, AI has no will. AI doesn’t care. And AI doesn’t know what a better world looks like.

One could easily look at these results and think, “Gen-Z’s gotta get their shit together.”

But is that the right way to think about it? 

Then What?

The curtain rose.

And all of the nightmares came true. The audience didn’t get it. They paid too much. They’re leaving angry.

So then what?

You look in the mirror. You figure out what you can do better. What you need to work on. Your message, your story, your skills, your delivery. 

But also, you look at the audience. Are they the right ones? Are these the people like us? Is this for them?

Then you get back to work. 

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